Beth Pinsker

Nobody wants to fill out paperwork and do all this work.

We do it because we don't want to be a burden to anybody.

We don't want to put extra work on anybody.

We don't want to put extra psychological pain on anybody, especially our own children.

And our parents don't want to put that on us.

And so the responsible loving thing to do is to get all this stuff lined up so that your family has a less hard time.

It's gonna be hard no matter what, because somebody you love is sick or dying.

So that's the only thing that should be hard.

The rest of it should be as locked up and easy as possible.

And the reason you do that is because you love these people and they love you.

And so you don't want anybody to be burdened.

This relieves them of that burden.

And that's the whole reason that we're in families in the first place.

Well, understand first that the number one reason why people don't do this is because they don't do this.

It's just procrastination.

There's really nothing else attached to it.

It's just a thing that they don't get to.

If you make it important, you'll get to it.

So if you think about the repercussions, if you listen to what happened to me, you will understand that this stuff is important and you should do it.

And that will help you get over the hump.