Bethenny Frankel

And a woman who's like, I'm looking or I'm open, it can seem desperate.

So it has to be like you have to position it in –

A way where it's confident, where you're like, yep, I've been, for me, it was, I've been celibate for nine months and I am now ready.

Like, it's my choice.

You have to position it in a confident way as far as explaining to people that you want to meet someone.

And then you do have to dabble, I believe, in the apps.

The matchmaker industry is the biggest scam of anything I've ever seen.

Well, Patti Stanger, I gave her – I'm not speaking about her specifically.

Years ago, she set me up on one date with one guy, and it was a good date.

So I mentioned that because this has been disruptive in the matchmaking industry that I've said this.

I've gotten calls from many of them, some asking me for jobs, some saying – but all I'm going to say is that in my personal experience and –

about now like 35 to 40 people within this dating concept every single person who has used matchmakers every single one not no exceptions has said it has been the biggest waste of money that they've ever spent and it's snake oil and it's spaghetti against the wall and it's just they have to get their numbers because they'll charge you 150 250 000 and tell you you can get eight matches is that how much it costs it could it goes between like 30 and 250 it's a big three

But there's no difference in the quality of what the $30,000 or the $250 give you.

And they'll guarantee you a certain number.

So they're just checking off boxes.

And now we have people cross-referencing that the same guys they're just sending out.

And some girls get paid to go out with guys so they can check the box.

I'm not saying that every single one is doing all of these things.

But I have not had... I have yet to have one person say that this has been a worthwhile thing that they've done.

Men and women.