Big Sexy
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324 appearances
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first heard Mar 2025
last heard Mar 2025
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30 years old, I have never been in a relationship in my life. I've had little flings. Yeah. But nothing serious like me and you, we together. We locked down. I've never in my life.
Oh, wow. I just reached a certain point of just... I think... I think that I've been, I know this may sound crazy to some people, but I think I've been scarred through a lot of other people's experiences. And seeing a lot of my female friends get hurt and a lot of my gay male friends get hurt and torn up.
That's why I'm even at a place in my life I want no relationship. Okay. Where I'm at in my life, none. I don't want no relationship. I want to tap and go. Because I've seen so many relationships and I've seen so many men come into good girls' lives that have so much shit going on and fuck.
And when I tell you, it happens every time. I've only seen, and I have to be real. As a gay black man, I've seen my friend Flex be successful in his relationship. Yes, they have issues and problems. Uh-huh. But they still have a camaraderie. They still have a relationship. They going five years strong. That's very weird in our community.
We don't see a lot of relationships that stay down, but they have a different dynamic of a relationship. They're very open and raw with each other. But for me, I've seen guys come into girls' lives and ruin them. They light up. And she was right there and getting her degree. It's one of my friends. I think that hurt me until I'm like 80.
And you know how 80 in movies, they looking back on their life? Yeah. She was supposed to be a doctor. She stopped.
And he knew what the fuck he was doing. Yeah. He knew what he was doing. And she allowed him to get in her fucking mind and fuck her up from getting her doctorate's degree.
I see that.
Me, that's me.
Because people are not led by God, they're led by love. People don't be letting God lead them. They be thinking that that's a God-led situation. It's not. Just like a lot of people say they have words from God and they don't. It's their own thoughts and their own bullshit that they feed themselves in their head. People be leaded by lust.
But you sitting here and you think that it's a love at first sight, that's bullshit. It's not. Not saying that it can't be because it can. Because I already know it's going to be stories out there. People say, no, I found love at first sight, and I get that. But 90% of the time, it's lust. And when you go through real shit, because I'm a believer in that, that's how we'll know it's love or not.
When real shit starts to happen, even with friendships, I've seen it. My friend was hanging out with a group of friends, and he went to go do time, and he heard from none of them but one, and the one was me. So when shit get real with people, yeah.
Because that's what it be.
Even in my community, there's so many people that are literally settling because they don't want to be alone. And then you look at me, you look at me, and then when I say that, people think that I'm tripping or I'm over-exaggerating or something wrong with me, and it's not.
I'm just at a journey in my life where I know what I want.
Me neither.
At all. So that's a good... They bring nothing. They have nothing to offer. My parents have been married 31 years. You niggas have nothing. My parents have been married 31 years and they tell me, if you've ever been in a long-term marriage, if you always say that you've always been in love, it's a lie. Not true. I agree.
Because you go through different hurdles and different points in your relationship. Sometimes you got to create love again. Sometimes you got to create those times. My parents been together 31 years and I've seen a lot of amazing moments with them. But I've seen times where they wasn't getting along. I've seen times of walking by each other in the house because that relationship should be a lot.
Yes, yes. It's so beautiful. It's so amazing. It's so agape. It's so cute. But it be real time, too. And people who have been in relationships, they can attest to that. It's a lot of work.
That is so true. And that's why for me, too, I love my Super Sense. I love my J-Lo's. I love my Holly Berry.
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