Big Sexy
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324 appearances
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first heard Mar 2025
last heard Mar 2025
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She never... Even though I knew that in her mind she may have felt how she felt, because it's inevitable. As parents... You want certain things for your children. Right. You want a certain lifestyle. Sometimes you lead in your selfishness of what you want for them, which is not always wrong. Right.
It's just how you envision your children that you want your son with a wife, you want your daughter with a husband. Right. And that is just what you envision for your family. So I get it. But young, when I tell you she will all, I could play with Barbie dolls. Yes. And she will be, thinking I'm lying. And she has to attest to it. She would let me play with Barbie dolls. Yeah.
She would let me wear her pocketbook. She would let me wear her... So I have to even tell her as an adult, girl, it's your fault.
And I appreciate it, but it gets so under... Because, girl, you let me just be who I was. Yeah. So I have no... I don't know how to backtrack.
It is. Yeah. Because it's just made me who I am. But I think everybody experiences different. And so I think as people, we have to understand that two things can be right at the same time. And so everybody experiences different. As far as me, I only can speak from my experience. I've always known what I like.
Now I do get on another spectrum that there are different things that trigger people and different experiences that they may have had in their life that has made them turn into that type of person. But for me and who I am, I've always been this way. I've never touched, licked, kissed a woman in my life.
You never was in love? You always knew this ain't for me. Never in my life. You couldn't. That's how I be when I see Coochie. I love my girls like God love his children.
My girls is the best thing that has ever happened in my life. But you like, I am not attractive. I have never kissed a woman. Like, you got to really think about that. And this is how I also know a lot. Every man is not gay, contrary to popular belief.
It's not true. And I think what happens is as people, because we're living that life, we experience those things. We then like to project onto other people and their experiences. All men are not gay. Right. Because you're talking to a gay man that has never even kissed a woman. Yeah. I've never touched a vagina. I've never licked. I've never seen it.
Outside of the strip club, outside of my mother. I've never seen it in that context of me making love or touching. So I know that there are men out there who don't desire another man. Because I'm a gay man who does not desire a woman. I see the beauty in her. Just like another man can see the beauty in another man. But he may not be sexually attracted to him in that way.
And it's possible for a man not to be sexually attracted to another man. Because I'm not sexually attracted to women. So I've always known who I was.
And I've talked to some girls, too, and all they realize is it's the same experience. Hell yeah. Women who are not emulating a man, how he operates, how he thinks, how he maneuvers, and she's getting the same experience.
But I think why those conversations do come up, right, because it can get very sticky. Because I think especially as gay people, we've experienced a lot of DL men. And so then what happens is we then start grouping people because we said to ourselves, you know what? I gave him the benefit of the doubt. He was gay. I've seen it all too.
But I still, because even when you do a pregnancy test, even when you do a DNA test, nothing is 100%.
So I can never just say all men are bi-curious. Right. All men are gay. You can't do that.
But you do have a lot of men who are bisexual. But you know in our community it's taboo. Yeah, it is. In the black community it's taboo to talk about bisexuality because we feel like it's not real. You are either gay or you are straight. It's no in between. But I think what a lot of people have to start realizing that they are bisexual men.
And as I'm preaching to y'all, I'm preaching to myself too.
Because I'm a realist. Because I have certain days where I'm like, no, it's no such thing as a man being bisexual. You either like men or you like women. But when I really have those cathartic moments to myself, I'm like, you know what? I can see how somebody could like a man and a woman. It may not necessarily make sense to me. Right. But I can see how it could be possible. What you think?
Do you think a man can be vibe?
Yeah.
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