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Bill Eddy

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Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

Give yourself some time, see if this stuff comes to the surface.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

Give yourself some time, see if this stuff comes to the surface.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

Right. I think it can be helpful. You know, I tell people, Google your partner and find out, you know, if there's some history there that may impact you. Definitely. But don't believe that's sufficient. What I say is that you really want to talk to is relatives and friends of this person. And what you really want to do is see them in action with their relatives and friends.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

Right. I think it can be helpful. You know, I tell people, Google your partner and find out, you know, if there's some history there that may impact you. Definitely. But don't believe that's sufficient. What I say is that you really want to talk to is relatives and friends of this person. And what you really want to do is see them in action with their relatives and friends.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

Right. I think it can be helpful. You know, I tell people, Google your partner and find out, you know, if there's some history there that may impact you. Definitely. But don't believe that's sufficient. What I say is that you really want to talk to is relatives and friends of this person. And what you really want to do is see them in action with their relatives and friends.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

Yes, because that's close relationships. That's the key. This is all about close relationships. And that's what catches people by surprise. They say, this person looks good at work.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

Yes, because that's close relationships. That's the key. This is all about close relationships. And that's what catches people by surprise. They say, this person looks good at work.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

Yes, because that's close relationships. That's the key. This is all about close relationships. And that's what catches people by surprise. They say, this person looks good at work.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

Some people have worked together for 10 years, and maybe they were in other relationships, and they both got divorced, commiserated with each other, and they get together, and it's like, we've known each other for 10 years, you know, we're going to have a great relationship. And they find out this is like a stranger almost, because it's a close relationship now. And that's the difference.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

Some people have worked together for 10 years, and maybe they were in other relationships, and they both got divorced, commiserated with each other, and they get together, and it's like, we've known each other for 10 years, you know, we're going to have a great relationship. And they find out this is like a stranger almost, because it's a close relationship now. And that's the difference.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

Some people have worked together for 10 years, and maybe they were in other relationships, and they both got divorced, commiserated with each other, and they get together, and it's like, we've known each other for 10 years, you know, we're going to have a great relationship. And they find out this is like a stranger almost, because it's a close relationship now. And that's the difference.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

How people behave in a close relationship often triggers like personality disordered stuff, fear of abandonment, fear of looking inferior, fear of being dominated, fear of not getting enough attention. The personality disorders seem to have excessive fears in these areas.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

How people behave in a close relationship often triggers like personality disordered stuff, fear of abandonment, fear of looking inferior, fear of being dominated, fear of not getting enough attention. The personality disorders seem to have excessive fears in these areas.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

How people behave in a close relationship often triggers like personality disordered stuff, fear of abandonment, fear of looking inferior, fear of being dominated, fear of not getting enough attention. The personality disorders seem to have excessive fears in these areas.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

Yes. And I'd say you mentioned the word stability, and that's really a key. So if they have close friends they've had for 10, 20, 30 years, that's a really good sign. Bad signs are... I don't want you talking to my family. They're evil people. They'll say terrible things about me. You can't trust them. They'll end up, they'll turn on you. They'll hate you. All this stuff.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

Yes. And I'd say you mentioned the word stability, and that's really a key. So if they have close friends they've had for 10, 20, 30 years, that's a really good sign. Bad signs are... I don't want you talking to my family. They're evil people. They'll say terrible things about me. You can't trust them. They'll end up, they'll turn on you. They'll hate you. All this stuff.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

Yes. And I'd say you mentioned the word stability, and that's really a key. So if they have close friends they've had for 10, 20, 30 years, that's a really good sign. Bad signs are... I don't want you talking to my family. They're evil people. They'll say terrible things about me. You can't trust them. They'll end up, they'll turn on you. They'll hate you. All this stuff.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

You can't even ever talk to my, I can't even let you know who my family is and what their emails and phone numbers are.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

You can't even ever talk to my, I can't even let you know who my family is and what their emails and phone numbers are.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

You can't even ever talk to my, I can't even let you know who my family is and what their emails and phone numbers are.