Bob Arnold
speaker
679 appearances
4 recordings
1 series
first heard Oct 2021
last heard Oct 2023
Bob Arnold’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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And in fact, it was a really good first draft.
And so now at least, even if I'm gonna read the whole thing, I now have a, I really thought this was good.
I did a lot of moving things around.
We should talk it through to see what you think about it.
Right.
You're giving what Doug Lamov would call out a rollout speech.
You're preparing them for what the experience is going to be like.
So that they don't feel
They don't have the internal voice.
See how I'm tying things together?
Your internal voice doesn't say to you, I'm never gonna be that good.
I obviously can't write.
If you start saying Bob, it's going to be scary.
The other book that junior people should read is called Thanks for the Feedback, which is a fabulous book by a guy named Doug Stone, who also wrote the book Difficult Conversation, which I think is a book that everybody in palliative care should read because it talks about the frame of what a difficult conversation is.
But in thanks for the feedback, if you were like me as an early faculty person,
I would get feedback on papers and I would either be so angry at the person who gave me the feedback because obviously they were stupid and they couldn't see what I was doing because they were so like stupid.
Or I'd be distressed because I never am going to succeed.
And he just gives a saner way to think about how to look at feedback as a gift to help you get better.
Do you have any advice on that, Bob?
Well, only try to work on one thing at a time, right?
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