Bobby McQuaid

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499 appearances 1 recordings 1 series first heard Dec 2025 last heard 18 Dec

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Just Between Us with Jennifer Zamparelli · Erectile dysfunction and the shame that keeps men silent · 18 Dec 2025 podcast

Two young people in love and you're just mad about each other.

You just want to be with each other all the time and got your hands all over each other and you just think it's inevitable you're going to have sex.

And so I just thought it'd be the same for me until I went to try and have sex and I couldn't.

I couldn't penetrate.

It's just this constant message from every media that it should be instant and it should be easy and it should be able to be done at a click of a finger.

You know, I love her so much.

Do I need to let her go?

Because this isn't fair.

I don't want to put this on her.

I thought there was absolutely no escape.

And so the shame just keeps you there and you can't get out of it.

There's nothing wrong with me.

I'm not strange.

I'm not odd.

I'm not unique.

I'm none of those things.

I'm just somebody who has a medical condition that got missed.

I suppose for me, the main thing was I went through all of this with my now wife,

we started this journey together, the healing journey.

And I suppose as we moved towards it forward in our life together as a couple and we got pregnant and we fast forward all through all those things, we had a house together.

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