Bobby McQuaid
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499 appearances
1 recordings
1 series
first heard Dec 2025
last heard 18 Dec
Bobby McQuaid’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Because this isn't fair.
I don't want to put this on her.
I'll go and live this on my own, this secret and this pain.
The main reason I can think of, and I touched on it earlier on,
It's just this constant message from every media that it should be instant and it should be easy and it should be able to be done at a click of a finger.
Obviously, you can point the finger at porn, obviously, straight away.
That's obviously an obvious one.
But I mean, I would look at movies and TVs and listen, having a rom-com, you know, where the guys have a struggle having sex might make it hard to have love scenes.
So I understand I'm not putting the onus on them.
But what I will say is when you give young people this messaging over and over again, that it should be this way,
a man's pride kicks in.
And so he believes that he's the problem.
He's doing something wrong.
And once it's that, he's not talking about it.
I mean, I've thought about this question myself.
I've asked myself it numerous times and
The only way I can describe it is the longer a secret goes on, the bigger the shame grows, the stronger that voice gets.
It gets really, really strong.
And so even when you build up the strength to maybe think about doing something.
it's straight away there.
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