Bobby McQuaid
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499 appearances
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first heard Dec 2025
last heard 18 Dec
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But then as I started with my wife and we were trying to have sex, I'd gone to a sex therapist early in my journey, basically after it didn't work with my wife, she kind of said, look, you need to get some help with this because we've done Viagra, we've done...
We've done the procedure.
So I went to a sex therapist and that was kind of one of the first things she really encouraged me to try.
Yeah.
She just, she basically said, look, you know, and again, no one had ever said this before, but she just said, look, sex is not all about penetration.
It's really not.
And again, listen to your podcast.
You learn like lots of people don't get pleasure of penetration.
It's not all about that.
And so she said to me, look, you're freezing when you go to have sex.
Your fear about the big day, the big deal, the big...
to get this done and off your back.
She said, I want to take all that away.
She said, I want you to say before you get into bed, you're not having a bunch of sex today.
Take that off the table and just lie with each other, touch each other, feel each other, just start really slow, really gentle.
And she says, sometimes it might proceed, it might progress, and other times it won't.
But yeah, it changed my whole perspective on what sex is.
And again, that was from one therapist, but I really wish there was other people talking about that.
Yeah.
So my life now, look.
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