Brad Jacobs

Yeah, people spineless, floppy, a simp.

I call it M2.

I call it M1.

This M3 method I've been building out that really focus on M1 are folks that are strong, decisive, protective, the good parts, but emotionally shut down.

Yeah.

A lot of guys.

And, you know, Sarah wrote a book called the autoimmune cure, which really sort of looks at just this, what we're talking about.

Yeah.

And this adverse childhood experience, ACE, uh,

questionnaire that you filled out that I really encourage people to fill out.

Really, I think it right-sizes things and lets you really realize, oh, wow, a lot of us cope and manage and think our childhood was manageable and I've moved on.

Because they use that as the fire to go leave their environment and, you know, excel.

In my clinical practice, I see it all day long.

I would say at least half to two thirds of my patients have significant trauma.

Wow.

And they just lock it down, compartmentalize it, and they achieve professionally.

Yeah.

And then often the personal life can be a bit volatile.

And when it comes to men, you know, you were asking about, like, do you call them a simp?

Like, a lot of folks experience trauma, and then they want to model what they experience as a father, as an adult, right?