Brad Stulberg
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1,230 appearances
3 recordings
3 series
first heard Jan 2026
last heard 31 Mar
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They're like, we're all going to die.
Let's talk about it.
So I think we can learn a lot from those extremes and then you can also lift them to the normal fissures in daily lives that bother us, right?
And I think something else that's really interesting here, and you will probably know better than me from your marketing agency, but it seems that there's a difference between performative vulnerability and the real thing.
So performative vulnerability is like crafting some Instagram post or tweet storm because you read my book or Brene Brown's work and you think that being vulnerable is good for you, so now I'm gonna be vulnerable so more people follow me.
A, that generally feels pretty gross, and B, it generally doesn't work.
Versus actual vulnerability, which is like, this is scary, I might even feel ashamed to share this,
And I'm going to say it and do it anyways.
And that's the stuff that makes you feel good, not gross.
And that's the stuff that goes nuts.
Whenever someone talks to me about the internet and like, oh, you know, you told me to be vulnerable.
Like I want to be vulnerable to connect with people.
I'm like, no, no, no.
Like you're trying to use it as an asset.
It'll come on its own.
You know when to be vulnerable?
Like when you don't want to share something, that's the thing that then you should share.
In simple terms, it's the ability to hold two competing strong emotions at once.
So joy and despair, life and death, anger and love.
And it's an extremely counterintuitive thing, but the more that we can embrace the full catastrophe of all these emotions...
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