Brad Wilcox

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Culture Apothecary with Alex Clark · Why You're Still Single & How To Get Married | Brad Wilcox · 5 Jun 2026 podcast

you know, how handsome or pretty or the size of their paycheck.

These are things that are not fundamental.

Well, I think it's important to be discerning about kind of what you're looking for in a spouse and to be discerning about the character of the person that you, that you're dating or that you're meeting or getting acquainted with.

But I think I do see for a lot of people today, they're, you know, they're dating someone for a year or two or three, or they're cohabiting with someone for a year or two or three.

At a certain point, I'm like,

you either know or you don't know, or you're either gonna decide or you're not gonna decide.

But this whole thing of taking two or three or four or five years to kind of pull the trigger, I think is very destructive.

You know, I think it really does, I think for a lot of guys, it's pretty instantaneous.

And it may not be like it's, you know, necessarily fully formed in his head and heart, but I think he has some kind of intuitive sense like this person is the person.

You know, but the stories vary that I hear.

So I don't think there's, you know, one complete pattern, to be honest.

I think it does vary for guys.

But I think for women, it often takes, you know, a longer period of time to sort of,

get the sense that this is the kind of guy who would be worthy, would be good, would be good for marriage and family.

Yeah, so it's interesting.

Deborah So, who you had here on the podcast, has written about this in her new book, Sex Tinction.

She kind of talks about the importance of, particularly, I think, in kind of a context where there's, like, Me Too, and there's, like, also, like, a worry that, like, someone's going to, like,

you know, shout out against you on social media.

It's going to say bad things about you.

And that would, I think, you know, for ordinary guys, it's just devastating to think about being accused of either sexual harassment or accused of being kind of like, you know, a creep basically on the internet.

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