Brad Wilcox
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first heard Jun 2026
last heard 5 Jun
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And, you know, your spouse probably isn't going to measure up to all of your previous partners on every dimension, right, in the best kind of way.
And the same thing is true for, you know, for men as well, that they're going to compare their wife to...
Liz and to, you know, Sally and to Amy in ways that are going to make their wife, you know, not measure up, you know, as well.
So I think this is the challenging part.
And then the other thing that's happening here too is that, you know, from the research, we do see they're kind of like, I think there are two impulses that we kind of wrestle with.
One is to pair bond, but one is to, you know, sow our wild oats.
If you've kind of gone in the direction of sowing your wild oats, you can kind of develop, you know, a habit
of just going from one person to the next.
And again, it's gonna be hard, I think, for some people to kind of turn off that expectation orientation of kind of going from one partner to the next in pursuit of some kind of novelty once you are married as well.
100%.
I think, yeah, this is true, I think, also for parents, too.
Like, even, like, you know, families.
Like, you know, I'm married, I've got a lot of kids.
We've got nine kids.
Wow, that's awesome.
Yeah.
So, you know, and you can kind of look at these families who are like posting from like their trip to, I don't know, you know, Hawaii or whatever, or they're like, you know, like raising chickens in the backyard or like, you know.
But, you know, no ordinary family is going to be kind of like doing all those things.
Right.
And so you kind of when you're on social media, you kind of can develop a sort of a sense that you don't measure up either as a potential boyfriend, girlfriend or as potential husband or wife or as potential father or mother compared to all the different kinds of images and messages that you're getting online.
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