Brandi Carlile
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146 appearances
4 recordings
4 series
first heard Dec 2024
last heard 23 May
Brandi Carlile’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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And that everything would be okay. And that, you know, we're not going to have lightning every night.
And that we're not all going to get norovirus and that, you know, and it's like, yeah, no, it takes, it's actually can be a bit like crippling fear sometimes for me because I'm just so afraid that whatever I told everybody to come do is going to be like fire festival and it's just going to be, I have nightmares about it, you know, but again, it's not about me being victorious at the end of a successful weekend.
It's about everyone else experiencing each other and me remembering that I'm really just a part of it. I'm not trying to air our dirty laundry or make our lives too public, but the things that I have called you two for advice about, the ways that we have leaned into one another and our families and our kids, it's been life-giving for our family. And I know that...
When we do that for each other, it has a ripple effect that can extend to all of our friends here. And it's pretty extraordinary, the things we've talked each other through.
Right back at you. You're leaders in ways that... I think people feel but don't overtly know. They know. They know. They're behind almost everything me and Kath do right. That's the truth.
Talk about mom guilt, honey.
Yeah, that's it. Right? Leave the hang, and then they'll be there. Yeah.
And I want to say one thing really quick, too, or the quick thing is that Alex said something earlier about returning to the ones who remember you, is that, you know, you went through a really intense journey when you went through IVF and when you did your family planning, and a person that watched you do it is your wife, and I promise you, your wife is in awe of you.
And she knows exactly who you are and who you were, and she'll help you find it again. So good.
You hear that giggle of agreement?
Those are your people.
Yeah, yeah. I wrote a song that just, I just was thinking of you the whole time I was writing it. That song, Human. And I sent you the lyrics and I sent you the song. But what else did I text you?
I said, and this is so, it's not been lost on me, that verse. I don't want to cry now. Where's the crying corner? I said, have you ever seen the beauty of a wildfire sun?
So, I think... And then I texted her a wildfire sun, okay? The photo of one.
They're all here right now. What? They're all here. Yeah, they're all here. That's right.
Hmm. This is another one. I called Glennon about this recently, didn't I?
I think that's right. Well, I just think it's the most radical thing you can do is to forgive yourself and forgive someone else. But it's hard because sometimes you can be in a fight with someone and they don't know you're in a fight with them.
Even if they've done something so awful to you, they might not really see it. And then you sit here and it's a year later and you're like, I don't want to forgive them because it's really negative energy in my life and I don't need it. It makes me a worse person. Forgiving them means allowing them to come back in.
And then, you know, forgiving yourself means that you would sort of move on from this person without telling them that you're in this place. world with them where you're, you're wounded or you're upset or you're angry. You're kind of fucking done even, but like there has to be, if they're alive.
And if there's a way for you to have a moment without any expectation of outcome to say what you're forgiving them for or what you think that they did to wrong you, if there's a way for you to do that and make yourself safe, I think you can really aid in the forgiveness process of yourself. And then I think you can helpfully move on.
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