Brendon Burchard

Don't tell him.

Well, first is I would say they've mastered achievement, but they don't feel it yet. It's talking to everybody in this room who you've had success already and you still don't feel like a success because we don't teach people how to integrate success.

Well, first is I would say they've mastered achievement, but they don't feel it yet. It's talking to everybody in this room who you've had success already and you still don't feel like a success because we don't teach people how to integrate success.

So you might have a lot of wins, a lot of victories, but if you never taught yourself how to debrief it, think about it, internalize it, and connect that to your identity and your character, a lot of people, what's blocking is they're still striving to feel what they already achieved. They're still trying so hard to feel good or adequate or worthy. They've done it. The track record shows it.

So you might have a lot of wins, a lot of victories, but if you never taught yourself how to debrief it, think about it, internalize it, and connect that to your identity and your character, a lot of people, what's blocking is they're still striving to feel what they already achieved. They're still trying so hard to feel good or adequate or worthy. They've done it. The track record shows it.

Because our society is not good at celebrating success. Look at how we demonize all the top earners. Look how we demonize the top people in government, culture, records. The bigger you get, the more that criticism comes out for no reason. You know, it just comes out. And so you're like, oh, do I want that? So they're scared. They're scared.

Because our society is not good at celebrating success. Look at how we demonize all the top earners. Look how we demonize the top people in government, culture, records. The bigger you get, the more that criticism comes out for no reason. You know, it just comes out. And so you're like, oh, do I want that? So they're scared. They're scared.

And they're not taught to celebrate the wins because, oh, if you celebrate your win, that's ego. And so few people, I actually, I really believe this. Most people have never genuinely celebrated their life. Wow. They have a birthday. They've had 50 of them. They've never genuinely celebrated and praised and felt an integrated life. God's hope for them, God's breath, God's grace.

And they're not taught to celebrate the wins because, oh, if you celebrate your win, that's ego. And so few people, I actually, I really believe this. Most people have never genuinely celebrated their life. Wow. They have a birthday. They've had 50 of them. They've never genuinely celebrated and praised and felt an integrated life. God's hope for them, God's breath, God's grace.

And if it's not God, they've just never took in that spiritual time. If you never felt life, how are you supposed to feel like the achievements matter? People have victories, but they never felt the victory. They're just on to the next battle, next battle, next battle, next battle. So you have to teach people first to feel. You really have to teach people to feel.

And if it's not God, they've just never took in that spiritual time. If you never felt life, how are you supposed to feel like the achievements matter? People have victories, but they never felt the victory. They're just on to the next battle, next battle, next battle, next battle. So you have to teach people first to feel. You really have to teach people to feel.

Once we can get that block out, now you can feel it. Let's celebrate some of the wins. Let's recognize it, which sounds so corny. It just works because what most people want, this is my secret. I was like, how do you get these clients? I go, well, I know one thing is true for all humans. It is the ultimate purpose we're all here for, at least I believe.

Once we can get that block out, now you can feel it. Let's celebrate some of the wins. Let's recognize it, which sounds so corny. It just works because what most people want, this is my secret. I was like, how do you get these clients? I go, well, I know one thing is true for all humans. It is the ultimate purpose we're all here for, at least I believe.

That is, if you've been granted life, the purpose is life. Another word is aliveness. What everybody wants is more aliveness. What they're usually chasing in the next thing is more aliveness. The bigger risk, the bigger deal, the bigger adventure, the bigger novelty, the bigger complexity, the bigger bank, the bigger, it's like the chase makes them feel alive. And so the chase is important.

That is, if you've been granted life, the purpose is life. Another word is aliveness. What everybody wants is more aliveness. What they're usually chasing in the next thing is more aliveness. The bigger risk, the bigger deal, the bigger adventure, the bigger novelty, the bigger complexity, the bigger bank, the bigger, it's like the chase makes them feel alive. And so the chase is important.

So we just got to make sure they're chasing the right thing. We are goal-driven species. We have this drive to achieve and build and create and expand. So you have to honor that. And I want you to feel that. We call it meaningful pursuits. We want you to have a meaningful pursuit that brings you alive. And sometimes it takes a while to figure that out. And the block is they're busy.

So we just got to make sure they're chasing the right thing. We are goal-driven species. We have this drive to achieve and build and create and expand. So you have to honor that. And I want you to feel that. We call it meaningful pursuits. We want you to have a meaningful pursuit that brings you alive. And sometimes it takes a while to figure that out. And the block is they're busy.

in the wrong chase. They're in the wrong hunt. They're literally playing a game that isn't even what matters to them. They just got taught that, or the kids who went to that college they went to that was fancy did that, or those guys on Wall Street who do that, or this guy I'm neighbors with who has this thing. And now they're playing games that are stupid that don't bring meaning or aliveness.

in the wrong chase. They're in the wrong hunt. They're literally playing a game that isn't even what matters to them. They just got taught that, or the kids who went to that college they went to that was fancy did that, or those guys on Wall Street who do that, or this guy I'm neighbors with who has this thing. And now they're playing games that are stupid that don't bring meaning or aliveness.

And if you don't have meaning and aliveness, The worst thing is you start making even worse choices because now you resent other people. So now you've got to compete with them to beat them in games that don't matter. Does anyone hear what I'm talking about?