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The Curiosity Shop with Brené Brown and Adam Grant
Why Toughness and Kindness Need Each Other | The Curiosity Shop

It's from Jacob Ries, who was an early 20th century Danish-American photographer, reformist.

The Curiosity Shop with Brené Brown and Adam Grant
Why Toughness and Kindness Need Each Other | The Curiosity Shop

And here's what the quote says.

The Curiosity Shop with Brené Brown and Adam Grant
Why Toughness and Kindness Need Each Other | The Curiosity Shop

I think you'll love this.

The Curiosity Shop with Brené Brown and Adam Grant
Why Toughness and Kindness Need Each Other | The Curiosity Shop

Do you know it?

The Curiosity Shop with Brené Brown and Adam Grant
Why Toughness and Kindness Need Each Other | The Curiosity Shop

No, tell me.

The Curiosity Shop with Brené Brown and Adam Grant
Why Toughness and Kindness Need Each Other | The Curiosity Shop

Adam, you don't?

The Curiosity Shop with Brené Brown and Adam Grant
Why Toughness and Kindness Need Each Other | The Curiosity Shop

When nothing seems to help, I go and look at a stonecutter hammering away at his rock, perhaps a hundred times without as much as a crack showing in it.

The Curiosity Shop with Brené Brown and Adam Grant
Why Toughness and Kindness Need Each Other | The Curiosity Shop

Yet at the hundredth and first blow, it will split in two.

The Curiosity Shop with Brené Brown and Adam Grant
Why Toughness and Kindness Need Each Other | The Curiosity Shop

And I know it was not that blow that did it, but all that had gone before.

The Curiosity Shop with Brené Brown and Adam Grant
Why Toughness and Kindness Need Each Other | The Curiosity Shop

So good.

The Curiosity Shop with Brené Brown and Adam Grant
Why Toughness and Kindness Need Each Other | The Curiosity Shop

It's so good around, I think, kindness and love.

The Curiosity Shop with Brené Brown and Adam Grant
Why Toughness and Kindness Need Each Other | The Curiosity Shop

wins when coupled with discipline and commitment.

The Curiosity Shop with Brené Brown and Adam Grant
Why Toughness and Kindness Need Each Other | The Curiosity Shop

And the thing, as you know, I'm a San Antonian, my parents were from San Antonio, I was born in San Antonio.

The Curiosity Shop with Brené Brown and Adam Grant
Why Toughness and Kindness Need Each Other | The Curiosity Shop

I think as long as I can think back on the Spurs and Popovich, the three words that come to mind are discipline, commitment,

The Curiosity Shop with Brené Brown and Adam Grant
Why Toughness and Kindness Need Each Other | The Curiosity Shop

Not compliance, but commitment and love.

The Curiosity Shop with Brené Brown and Adam Grant
Why Toughness and Kindness Need Each Other | The Curiosity Shop

And every team I've worked with that worked from that ethos has had incredible winning experiences.

The Curiosity Shop with Brené Brown and Adam Grant
Why Toughness and Kindness Need Each Other | The Curiosity Shop

Not every season and not all the time because it doesn't work like that.

The Curiosity Shop with Brené Brown and Adam Grant
Why Toughness and Kindness Need Each Other | The Curiosity Shop

But to me, we started this conversation, interestingly, about the paradox of toughness and kindness and

The Curiosity Shop with Brené Brown and Adam Grant
Why Toughness and Kindness Need Each Other | The Curiosity Shop

You know, I think that's when you're sitting with someone in grief or you're the spurs.

The Curiosity Shop with Brené Brown and Adam Grant
Why Toughness and Kindness Need Each Other | The Curiosity Shop

It takes toughness to sit with someone in grief and it takes deep kindness.