Brianna Gomez
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
You would wake up.
Yes, it might hurt, but you would be okay.
You would get to a place where you can build new relationships, where you can make new friends because you have that worth within yourself.
And because you don't use the love that someone else gives you to tell you that you are worthy, you know that you are worthy.
And that worth is what tells you what you will and won't tolerate in your relationships and in your friendships.
That worth tells you.
what you do deserve in life.
And I need you to know that love is not something that is earned or proven.
It is something that is deserved, not by the grace of others, but because of you.
You know in your heart that you are deserving of true, genuine love, friendships, and relationships and intention so strongly that you will not tolerate any less from anyone else.
You don't need the fakeness.
You don't need the unhealthy codependency.
You don't need the hot and cold back and forth toxic relationship that people are so tethered to because you know that you deserve true, genuine, healthy love.
And the way that you really know what that looks like is through example.
And what better example to set for yourself and for the relationships in your life than the relationship between you and yourself?
You know that true love exists because you exist and because you love your life and you love yourself so strongly that no one can take away from it.
And that is how you know you are deserving of love.
Not because someone else tells you you are, not because they're validating you.
So you're like, okay, I feel good.
I can sleep at night knowing that someone else said that I'm worthy of love.