Brianna Gomez
π€ SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
Because that way, and you will come across people who will try to question your character, who will try to question your confidence, who will try to question your morals, who will make you question yourself.
But if you have this strong foundation...
of confidence.
You will know that if someone is saying something about you and it's not true and that they're saying you're a bad friend, they're saying you're not a good person, you will be able to know it's not true and it won't even shake you at all.
Having unshakable confidence comes from being so sure in the type of person you are, not just within yourself, but within how you treat others, how you view others, how you love other people.
Focus on that and you can be confident
in who you are.
Be confident in your integrity.
Be confident that you don't judge other people.
That will make you the most beautiful person, the most magnetic person, and there will be no question about your confidence.
I want to talk about the phrase, fake it till you make it, and I was thinking about this last night.
Think about when you're falling asleep, okay?
I couldn't fall asleep because I'd taken a really long nap earlier and I wasn't tired at all.
I did not believe that I could fall asleep, but what did I do anyway?
I put my head on the pillow, I closed my eyes, and I laid still.
And essentially, what does that look like I'm doing?
If my eyes are closed, my head's on the pillow, it looks like I'm sleeping.
Am I really sleeping?
No.
But in order to fall asleep, what do we do first?