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Brianna Gomez

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
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How to Spot Fake Friends Before They Drain You: Outgrowing Toxic Friendships & Jealous People

You are.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Spot Fake Friends Before They Drain You: Outgrowing Toxic Friendships & Jealous People

And so learn to let that go, give that up, because...

Hot and Unbothered
How to Spot Fake Friends Before They Drain You: Outgrowing Toxic Friendships & Jealous People

That is just not going to make you improve.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Spot Fake Friends Before They Drain You: Outgrowing Toxic Friendships & Jealous People

And so once you are able to do that, then you should be able to see them in person, not want to rip their hair out.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Spot Fake Friends Before They Drain You: Outgrowing Toxic Friendships & Jealous People

You can be kind.

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How to Spot Fake Friends Before They Drain You: Outgrowing Toxic Friendships & Jealous People

You can be cordial.

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How to Spot Fake Friends Before They Drain You: Outgrowing Toxic Friendships & Jealous People

Because remember, the way you treat others says so much more about you than it does about them.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Spot Fake Friends Before They Drain You: Outgrowing Toxic Friendships & Jealous People

So be the person who chooses to just let it go.

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How to Spot Fake Friends Before They Drain You: Outgrowing Toxic Friendships & Jealous People

You don't have to call someone out in public.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Spot Fake Friends Before They Drain You: Outgrowing Toxic Friendships & Jealous People

You don't have to cause a fight.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Spot Fake Friends Before They Drain You: Outgrowing Toxic Friendships & Jealous People

be mature, be classy.

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How to Spot Fake Friends Before They Drain You: Outgrowing Toxic Friendships & Jealous People

Now, there is nothing worse than the feeling of when you see that someone is fake, you see that they are toxic, you see that they are a liar, and you're trying to tell your friends and no one else believes you.

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How to Spot Fake Friends Before They Drain You: Outgrowing Toxic Friendships & Jealous People

Someone asked, how do you convince your other friends that someone is being a fake friend?

Hot and Unbothered
How to Spot Fake Friends Before They Drain You: Outgrowing Toxic Friendships & Jealous People

The answer is you can't.

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How to Spot Fake Friends Before They Drain You: Outgrowing Toxic Friendships & Jealous People

I have tried this.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Spot Fake Friends Before They Drain You: Outgrowing Toxic Friendships & Jealous People

I have tried this multiple times, waving your arms around someone being like, hey,

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How to Spot Fake Friends Before They Drain You: Outgrowing Toxic Friendships & Jealous People

This person's fake.

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How to Spot Fake Friends Before They Drain You: Outgrowing Toxic Friendships & Jealous People

It's not good for you.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Spot Fake Friends Before They Drain You: Outgrowing Toxic Friendships & Jealous People

It's going to hit the fan.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Spot Fake Friends Before They Drain You: Outgrowing Toxic Friendships & Jealous People

A lot of times, if the person you're trying to warn is equally friends and looped in, drawn in by the fake friend, it's like they're in a hypnosis because fake friends are really good at what they do best, being fake, being manipulators, lying, trying to convince other people to feel bad for them.