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Brianna Gomez

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
4833 total appearances

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Hot and Unbothered
How to Spot Fake Friends Before They Drain You: Outgrowing Toxic Friendships & Jealous People

It's their craft.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Spot Fake Friends Before They Drain You: Outgrowing Toxic Friendships & Jealous People

It is their art.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Spot Fake Friends Before They Drain You: Outgrowing Toxic Friendships & Jealous People

And you got to give them credit.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Spot Fake Friends Before They Drain You: Outgrowing Toxic Friendships & Jealous People

They're talented.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Spot Fake Friends Before They Drain You: Outgrowing Toxic Friendships & Jealous People

They are really talented.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Spot Fake Friends Before They Drain You: Outgrowing Toxic Friendships & Jealous People

It is not a flex.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Spot Fake Friends Before They Drain You: Outgrowing Toxic Friendships & Jealous People

However, a lot of people don't see it coming because oftentimes fake friends are not just something that's like always going to be new and they just come into your life and you're like, wow, you're fake.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Spot Fake Friends Before They Drain You: Outgrowing Toxic Friendships & Jealous People

It's often someone who might have been planted in your friend group or in your life from the beginning.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Spot Fake Friends Before They Drain You: Outgrowing Toxic Friendships & Jealous People

And they laid a really strong foundation for themselves.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Spot Fake Friends Before They Drain You: Outgrowing Toxic Friendships & Jealous People

They gained trust from people so that when someone tries to accuse them of being fake or manipulative, no one thinks that they did anything wrong.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Spot Fake Friends Before They Drain You: Outgrowing Toxic Friendships & Jealous People

It's like, oh my gosh, this little angel.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Spot Fake Friends Before They Drain You: Outgrowing Toxic Friendships & Jealous People

And you cannot convince them to see otherwise.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Spot Fake Friends Before They Drain You: Outgrowing Toxic Friendships & Jealous People

But here is the reassurance.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Spot Fake Friends Before They Drain You: Outgrowing Toxic Friendships & Jealous People

If this person is as toxic and manipulative as you know they are,

Hot and Unbothered
How to Spot Fake Friends Before They Drain You: Outgrowing Toxic Friendships & Jealous People

the truth will come out eventually the thing about toxic relationships and we've seen this even in romantic relationships the most i'm guilty of this people could be shaking you like there is no tomorrow trying to wake you up out of this hypnosis you are under by this toxic person when you're looped into a toxic person and you develop these attachment styles then because they're so toxic and they know exactly how to get you sucked in oftentimes you will not leave

Hot and Unbothered
How to Spot Fake Friends Before They Drain You: Outgrowing Toxic Friendships & Jealous People

Even if people try to warn you until you find out the hard way and my reassurance to you is that They will find out for themselves and it's not going to be pretty and it's going to be exactly how you told them It will happen.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Spot Fake Friends Before They Drain You: Outgrowing Toxic Friendships & Jealous People

It will be the biggest I told you so moment, but the reassurance is that one day You will get to say I told you so but my encouragement to you is like Don't waste all your breath trying to paul revere it right going into town and being like they're toxic.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Spot Fake Friends Before They Drain You: Outgrowing Toxic Friendships & Jealous People

They're toxic Don't be friends with them

Hot and Unbothered
How to Spot Fake Friends Before They Drain You: Outgrowing Toxic Friendships & Jealous People

Somehow that often gets turned around to you looking like the bad guy.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Spot Fake Friends Before They Drain You: Outgrowing Toxic Friendships & Jealous People

But here's the truth, you guys.