Brianna Gomez

The trash will take itself out in these situations, meaning you don't even have to lift a finger.

If you are being genuine and if your heart and intentions are pure, the other person who is the opposite of that will self-destruct completely.

You don't have to manually take this person down.

Because sooner or later they're gonna take themselves down and you will have saved so much time and energy By not trying to warn everyone about it not trying to shake other people getting them to realize it You will just get to say I knew it I know it can be frustrating and I know it could feel impossible but my advice would be like don't waste too much of your time or energy and

Trying to prove why this person is toxic because that just gives them exactly what they want more attention More of your energy and we're not gonna give that to them someone asked a question a lot of you may be thinking and that is how do you differentiate between a fake friend and someone who's just going through a hard time the difference is their Intentions behind it and their heart behind it number one would be if it's a pattern, right?

If this person, maybe your whole life since childhood, has always been jealous of you or they've been showing for the past years that they're copying everything you do or that they'll never be happy for you.

That's one thing.

But if someone's just kind of around less or they haven't been as present in the friendship, always check up on them first.

A lot of people, and I've seen so many of my friends make this mistake and I'm like, don't do that.

When you think someone is like acting off or weird or it feels like they're distancing themselves, a lot of times we text them first and we say, are you mad at me?

What's the first thing you're doing?

You're making it about yourself because what if this person is actually going through something really, really hard and what they really wanted was someone to just check up on them because they're not doing well and you're making it about you.

You're also opening the window in their brain for them to be like, you know what?

Maybe I am mad at this person.

Don't make it about yourself.

If you actually think that someone might just be going through a hard time instead of being a genuinely...

bad friend go ahead and ask them and say like how are you doing are you doing okay let's meet up and talk so that way you could really get a vibe of the intentions i never recommend automatically going for that are you mad at me do you hate me like that just never ends well i need you to understand this friendships are not based off of how often you see someone how much money they spend on you how many times a day they text you or call you it is based on the actual substance of the conversations and times you do spend together

Because the truth is, some people are busy.

We all go through such different seasons of life.

And we cannot expect every friend to be perfect every single day and every single season.