Brianna Gomez
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
It's hurting the other person and it's hurting the other people around you because maybe some of you have been in that position where you can see your friend who's in that toxic relationship per se and it becomes an obsession and you see them become so obsessed with this person and their worth becomes so attached and dependent on this person where you watch their self-worth wither away and it hurts you.
And you can do whatever you want and you can wave your arms in front of them being like, oh my goodness, please wake up.
Please get away from this.
It's not good for you.
Please find your sense of self-worth again.
I miss my old friend.
And sometimes, most of the times, you can't get through to them.
because they are latched on literally like a leech sucking blood it's like they need this for survival so the goal is to not just paint this very deep serious dark picture but it's to open your eyes at how desperately
we do cling on to people.
And it's almost like it's our vice.
Maybe it's not a specific person, but just love in general is something that we feed off of.
We feel like we need it.
But when you are operating from a place of lack, you will never be full.
You will never be abundant.
You will never have enough.
And I think that's what's so hard is that no, love is not quantifiable.
So you cannot thirst and feed off of this thing.
that is, it is limitless.
You know what I mean?
Like we can't count a certain amount of love or compliments or affection and suddenly be like, okay, I'm good for a while.