Brianna Gomez

Multiply the things that you are lacking.

If you walk in and you are lacking confidence and that's what you're focusing on, everyone's going to see, right?

That's what everyone's going to focus on because it's what you're focusing on too.

But when you make the shift to confidence, that means you are making the shift to not focusing on what you lack, not focusing on the bad, the negative.

You are focusing on the things that are positive about you, about your life, about what you're doing.

When you choose to focus on what you actually do have and all the things that are going right,

What goes wrong feels so much more minuscule.

Your problems shrink if you let the positive outcomes grow.

And I think that a lot of people don't realize that about confidence.

They think that it's some way that they have to carry themselves, some way they have to present themselves.

And yes, that is part of it, but it all actually starts from the lens that you are looking through.

And I don't think a lot of people realize that we hold little lenses.

We look through different lenses.

And there are some days you can choose to look through your negative anxiety lens, or there are days where you can choose to look through your confident lens.

And I think that the difference is a lot of people who have the negative anxiety lenses, they don't realize that they can take them off and that they can choose to look a different direction through a different lens of confidence, of

prosperity of abundance of happiness and of freedom but sometimes your anxiety lenses feel so tight they feel like they're almost attached to your face you need to do everything in your power to rip them off you might think that they are stuck on there but i promise you they are removable it might take a little more work than some others but i promise you they do come off

And so when you think of the confident person, you might think that, oh, they just get everything because they're so confident or they're just so hot, they're prettier than me, they're more successful than me.

Is it that or is it that they just carry themselves with confidence, okay?

And I want to frame confidence as a tool that you can turn on and off or kind of like amp up in certain aspects if you need to.

And I...