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Brianna Gomez

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How to Actually Build REAL Confidence in a World of Ego (Without Faking It)

have done this tried and true again i used to be so shy and then i achieved confidence which for me the way that i achieved confidence i'll give you my little confidence testimony is that again i used to not be able to public speak i have a twin sister and she would have to speak for me like to adults to strangers like i could just not talk and then when i was in school i remember like shaking so badly like people would make fun of me or my sister especially would make fun of me because i would be shaking voice trembling

Hot and Unbothered
How to Actually Build REAL Confidence in a World of Ego (Without Faking It)

I sounded like I was going to cry when I spoke in front of the class.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Actually Build REAL Confidence in a World of Ego (Without Faking It)

I sounded like I was going to cry.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Actually Build REAL Confidence in a World of Ego (Without Faking It)

Yeah.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Actually Build REAL Confidence in a World of Ego (Without Faking It)

And then something changed within me.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Actually Build REAL Confidence in a World of Ego (Without Faking It)

And for me, what unlocked it and made a huge difference was to just get out there.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Actually Build REAL Confidence in a World of Ego (Without Faking It)

I had to push myself out of my comfort zone and I had to rip off the bandaid that was sticking onto me labeled anxiety, fear, magnet.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Actually Build REAL Confidence in a World of Ego (Without Faking It)

I had to take that off.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Actually Build REAL Confidence in a World of Ego (Without Faking It)

And so something that really helped me, and obviously this isn't the only way, but one thing that helped me get out of my comfort zone is I started doing cheer when I was younger.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Actually Build REAL Confidence in a World of Ego (Without Faking It)

I love cheerleading.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Actually Build REAL Confidence in a World of Ego (Without Faking It)

I don't know if I've ever talked about that on here, probably a little bit.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Actually Build REAL Confidence in a World of Ego (Without Faking It)

And that helped me so much because we would compete.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Actually Build REAL Confidence in a World of Ego (Without Faking It)

We would go in front of like the stage, in front of big crowds and everything.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Actually Build REAL Confidence in a World of Ego (Without Faking It)

Number one, it forced me to interact with other people too and just like love performing.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Actually Build REAL Confidence in a World of Ego (Without Faking It)

That's when I really, really loved performing, like just smiling in front of everybody, dancing, doing whatever.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Actually Build REAL Confidence in a World of Ego (Without Faking It)

And I loved it.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Actually Build REAL Confidence in a World of Ego (Without Faking It)

And a lot of people might not think they love it.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Actually Build REAL Confidence in a World of Ego (Without Faking It)

Not everyone likes performing.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Actually Build REAL Confidence in a World of Ego (Without Faking It)

If you don't like performing, that doesn't mean that you aren't confident.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Actually Build REAL Confidence in a World of Ego (Without Faking It)

But this is what kind of like unlocked it for me when I was younger.