Brittany Luce

He's not actually doing that work.

Okay, wait.

So give me an example of like a man or a fictional character in pop culture that people would know that fits your definition of the pathetic man.

And maybe a man in pop culture who might seem like a pathetic man, but isn't.

Just so people can really understand the difference.

He knows.

And by the time they often realize it, it's like way too late.

I mean, literally one of the characters, one of the main characters of Industry literally marries him and is then kind of like, ah.

You know, I mean, she thinks she's marrying this billionaire guy who is –

He's pretty hot.

I mean, he's played by the same actor who played Jon Snow, which I didn't watch Game of Thrones.

Kit Harington.

He's played by Kit Harington.

Handsome guy.

Very charismatic.

But like you said, you get one layer beneath the surface.

And he's just this ball of want and need and just self...

like just feeling sorry for himself constantly um and yeah in some ways i think that that kind of draws you know that draws people in like you said draw some of the women in but by the time they realize that it's like oh this is like there's just more of this i go layers and layers deeper and it's just more and more of this abyss of like neediness it's it's too late by then usually

Who's like a man that people might think of as pathetic?

but doesn't fit this definition.