Brynn Whitfield
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That's not nice.
That's not nice.
That's self-harm. Yeah. So if that guy is mansplaining economics to you, bitch, run. You know what? It's called self-care, bitch. It's called self-care. Get the fuck out of there.
That's self-harm. Yeah. So if that guy is mansplaining economics to you, bitch, run. You know what? It's called self-care, bitch. It's called self-care. Get the fuck out of there.
Oh, I love People's. Isn't that darling? Okay. Well, I posted about it, and then they were like, you can't talk about it. So he was like, not me getting kicked out of People's, Raya, everything with my big mouth.
Oh, I love People's. Isn't that darling? Okay. Well, I posted about it, and then they were like, you can't talk about it. So he was like, not me getting kicked out of People's, Raya, everything with my big mouth.
I love it too. Hot people are at People's.
I love it too. Hot people are at People's.
Yes.
Yes.
I wrote, well, it's coming out, but I wrote Modern Dating for Dummies, like the Dummies book, and it's coming out on August 19th. And a huge part is about the red flags to look out for. Here's the thing. When it comes to red flags, everybody is going to have different shades of red flags. It's up to you to decide what you're willing to accept.
I wrote, well, it's coming out, but I wrote Modern Dating for Dummies, like the Dummies book, and it's coming out on August 19th. And a huge part is about the red flags to look out for. Here's the thing. When it comes to red flags, everybody is going to have different shades of red flags. It's up to you to decide what you're willing to accept.
And, of course, there are red flags that are just non-negotiables, right? Right. I think on the beginning scale, like when you're first starting to date, red flags that I immediately will not tolerate. When you're on a date, someone's on their phone. That's just a bigger indicator that they're not going to give you the attention they deserve. Yes, people have work. People, things come up.
And, of course, there are red flags that are just non-negotiables, right? Right. I think on the beginning scale, like when you're first starting to date, red flags that I immediately will not tolerate. When you're on a date, someone's on their phone. That's just a bigger indicator that they're not going to give you the attention they deserve. Yes, people have work. People, things come up.
They will articulate that, maybe step away. I understand things happen. But someone that's chronically on their phone when they should be giving you attention. Remember, a first date is the best typically it's going to get. So if they're giving you bullshit.
They will articulate that, maybe step away. I understand things happen. But someone that's chronically on their phone when they should be giving you attention. Remember, a first date is the best typically it's going to get. So if they're giving you bullshit.
So if someone's best self is already shit, that's a sign. So, you know, I think number one thing, red flag, someone's not giving you the proper attention you deserve.
So if someone's best self is already shit, that's a sign. So, you know, I think number one thing, red flag, someone's not giving you the proper attention you deserve.
Number two, excessive talk about previous relationships, entanglements, exes.
Number two, excessive talk about previous relationships, entanglements, exes.