Brynn Whitfield

We all have baggage, but check that shit in.

We all have baggage, but check that shit in.

Like, even if it's from a moa, like, leave that away.

Like, even if it's from a moa, like, leave that away.

You made them crazy. You made them crazy.

You made them crazy. You made them crazy.

I think everybody likes a little crazy. But I do, I feel like what's respectful is like when you go through a breakup, you should both act like you signed NDAs and just leave it in the past.

I think everybody likes a little crazy. But I do, I feel like what's respectful is like when you go through a breakup, you should both act like you signed NDAs and just leave it in the past.

It's like if you're still bringing up those points, especially it shows anger if you're calling someone in the past crazy or something. It shows that you're not over it. So that's a red flag in itself. You want someone that's 100% detached from what they had. You can't have two chapters open at the same time. So if you're still thinking about someone else, you can't open this chapter with me.

It's like if you're still bringing up those points, especially it shows anger if you're calling someone in the past crazy or something. It shows that you're not over it. So that's a red flag in itself. You want someone that's 100% detached from what they had. You can't have two chapters open at the same time. So if you're still thinking about someone else, you can't open this chapter with me.

Another red flag, I think someone that wants to keep you a secret. When I was first dating, because of my size, I always felt like I was a girl that they would call at 4 a.m. but were never proud enough to bring me out on a date. And that's where Take Me Out really stems from. It's like, you deserve a tablecloth, bitch. You deserve to not be the 4am text.

Another red flag, I think someone that wants to keep you a secret. When I was first dating, because of my size, I always felt like I was a girl that they would call at 4 a.m. but were never proud enough to bring me out on a date. And that's where Take Me Out really stems from. It's like, you deserve a tablecloth, bitch. You deserve to not be the 4am text.

And no matter what you look like, I think it goes back again to those narratives we were told that guys only like a certain body type or like a certain look, which is total bullshit. It's beyond bullshit. I've been the smallest and I've been the biggest and I've had guys like me along the way. I used to get shocked. how people would treat me.

And no matter what you look like, I think it goes back again to those narratives we were told that guys only like a certain body type or like a certain look, which is total bullshit. It's beyond bullshit. I've been the smallest and I've been the biggest and I've had guys like me along the way. I used to get shocked. how people would treat me.

Like, even the, like, messages I'm getting on dating apps that are, like, what's up, like, bitch, like, come over. Like, you know, like, they're saying some crazy stuff. Yeah, yeah. And I'm, like, immediately it's up to me to say that's not what I deserve. Yes. So I feel like a red flag is someone that continuously tries to give you bare minimum and thinks that you'll accept it.

Like, even the, like, messages I'm getting on dating apps that are, like, what's up, like, bitch, like, come over. Like, you know, like, they're saying some crazy stuff. Yeah, yeah. And I'm, like, immediately it's up to me to say that's not what I deserve. Yes. So I feel like a red flag is someone that continuously tries to give you bare minimum and thinks that you'll accept it.

And it takes a lot of courage and a lot of learning to say, like, I deserve better than that.

And it takes a lot of courage and a lot of learning to say, like, I deserve better than that.

And that's hot. And I love that you can admit that and own that. I think we all need to be up front with what we want. Yeah. You know, if you're not the chill girl, don't try to be chill. Yeah. If you love having casual sex, feel free to do it. Totally. And that's iconic. You can never fuck your way into making someone love you more.

And that's hot. And I love that you can admit that and own that. I think we all need to be up front with what we want. Yeah. You know, if you're not the chill girl, don't try to be chill. Yeah. If you love having casual sex, feel free to do it. Totally. And that's iconic. You can never fuck your way into making someone love you more.