Brynn Whitfield

And that's a lesson that nobody tells you.

And that's a lesson that nobody tells you.

We need to teach this at school. Yeah, welcome to dating what I want. But it's so true because, again, I used to think, like, if I sleep with this guy, he's going to like me more. If I give him more attention, he's going to want me more. But you'll never make someone want you more by doing more. Right, right.

We need to teach this at school. Yeah, welcome to dating what I want. But it's so true because, again, I used to think, like, if I sleep with this guy, he's going to like me more. If I give him more attention, he's going to want me more. But you'll never make someone want you more by doing more. Right, right.

I always say, like, a lot of times, we all do this, you kind of check, you always check, like, what someone is going to relate to you. When you're dating, you already kind of categorize what they'll be to you, I think, a lot of times off the jump. It's like, could this be serious?

I always say, like, a lot of times, we all do this, you kind of check, you always check, like, what someone is going to relate to you. When you're dating, you already kind of categorize what they'll be to you, I think, a lot of times off the jump. It's like, could this be serious?

We all do that. It's like, okay, you want someone that has a career and that wants a family, but you meet a guy that's 25 working in a bar, has a roster. You're making a decision. Is this going to be someone I want long term with or do I want to get laid tonight?

We all do that. It's like, okay, you want someone that has a career and that wants a family, but you meet a guy that's 25 working in a bar, has a roster. You're making a decision. Is this going to be someone I want long term with or do I want to get laid tonight?

what's important is to own what you want and allow yourself to change what you want to totally last red flag oh my god i hate the comedy special roaster if a guy is putting you down and calling that a joke it's not fucking funny he's like oh wow like you look like crazy today haha it's not fucking funny no that's not fucking like it's not funny that you're wearing the same patagonia vest every damn day and acting like your personality is the wolf of wall street help

what's important is to own what you want and allow yourself to change what you want to totally last red flag oh my god i hate the comedy special roaster if a guy is putting you down and calling that a joke it's not fucking funny he's like oh wow like you look like crazy today haha it's not fucking funny no that's not fucking like it's not funny that you're wearing the same patagonia vest every damn day and acting like your personality is the wolf of wall street help

I think the main thing, especially with building your confidence, both with dating and platonic friendships, never let someone put you down and call that funny.

I think the main thing, especially with building your confidence, both with dating and platonic friendships, never let someone put you down and call that funny.

You know, I've been bullied as a kid. I grew the fuck up. I pulled myself out of the batty bootstraps. And I am never going to let someone talk to me like that. No, no. And I think it's easy when people have done those things and it is confusing because you're like, do they hate me? But like they're laughing, they're smiling, but they're insulting me.

You know, I've been bullied as a kid. I grew the fuck up. I pulled myself out of the batty bootstraps. And I am never going to let someone talk to me like that. No, no. And I think it's easy when people have done those things and it is confusing because you're like, do they hate me? But like they're laughing, they're smiling, but they're insulting me.

But it takes like, again, being like, anyone that truly loves you will not make you question if they love you.

But it takes like, again, being like, anyone that truly loves you will not make you question if they love you.

Yeah, what are your red flags?

Yeah, what are your red flags?

And that's why I was saying silly girl spring, the rules for me are like Aperol spritzes, romanticizing your friendships.

And that's why I was saying silly girl spring, the rules for me are like Aperol spritzes, romanticizing your friendships.