Caitlin V
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
We're going to use the system that we have put in place.
And that allows everything to run really smoothly.
But for some reason, we're like, that takes the romance out of relationships.
And the same is true for a relationship.
So I think that- That makes sense.
Yes, these conversations are difficult to have.
Sometimes we're totally unpracticed at having them.
Sometimes we've just never done it before.
And so our lizard brain is like, this is for sure gonna kill me.
I'm definitely gonna die, right?
Skydiving, for example, right?
The first time, every part of your brain, I've not done it, but I'm assuming, has to be going like,
I'm going to die.
And then you land and then you're like, oh, I didn't die.
I can do that again.
Right.
And then the like, I'm going to die part has to quiet down a little bit over time.
Same is true for having conversations about sex.
Why are you an idiot?
Because you might die.