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Caitlin V

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
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And they're growing back and I'm on like the third or fourth round of them growing back from just water.

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And they're not as strong as they were.

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So then I'm looking up and how is it that we grow plants in water and they give them just the right amount of potassium and nitrogen and all the things that they need.

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But what ends up happening is that you grow these really beautiful, stunning plants and they have no flavor at all.

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Because the thing that makes for an interesting plant, and this is true, I mean, Psalms know this about wine, and I'm sure there's a ton of other examples out there, is that they are made interesting by their hardship.

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It is not having enough nitrogen that made that lettuce look a little funky, but taste incredible, right?

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Like, it is the conditions of hardship that actually shape us to have flavor.

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They're at that point.

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They're beyond that point, right?

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Because I work with men who for the most part would prefer to just not have to deal with this.

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It is inherently a courageous act to reach out to me or my team in order to get support because it requires this tremendous first step of saying like, I actually cannot do this on my own.

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I need help with this.

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Yeah.

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Which requires us even saying that this is a challenge.

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One of the greatest barriers that I have to entry is men just not wanting to admit that there is a problem at all.

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Because it is scary to even say that, right?

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There's nothing to look at over there.

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But don't live to the rug.

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There's nothing under there to see.

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Yeah, it's perfect right there too.