Camille Fornela

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668 appearances 8 recordings 1 series first heard Mar 2025 last heard Jun 2025

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The Budgetarian Bride: The Podcast · Para Lang Akong Ornament sa Sarili kong Wedding | TBB S2EP1 · 3 Mar 2025 podcast

Kasi sa mga magulang nyo pa lang, ay hindi pwedeng hindi invited itong kumari ko. Kahit huling kita mo pa siguro doon nung bata ka pa or worse, never mo pang na-meet pero hindi pwedeng hindi imbitahin ang magulang mo. matched

So, these are the things na makakapagpa-pressure sa inyo as soon to wed couples na nagpa-plano ng wedding. And ito nga, I think ito yung naging reason talaga nung away nila ng kanyang grown-to-be. matched

Kasi hindi sila magkasundo sa guest list. Tapos nagdagan mo pa na may sariling guest list, yung magulang ni groom. And it became so complicated kasi nga sila yung gumastos doon sa wedding. You see, yung pinagbadaanan ni bride to be. And ito, number four. I think ito yung parang magiging long term na kailangan nilang solusyonan. It's their communication. matched

Do you agree? Kasi ito, for me, yung pinakamasakit na line doon, yung sinabi niya, Practically speaking, he's right. But emotionally, I'm hurt. Para akong ornament na lang by his side. Masakit yun. As a bride-to-be, matched

Kapag nagpa-plano ka ng wedding mo kasi sa una, very overwhelming. Hindi mo alam kung saan o paano sisimulan yung wedding preps. Until makarating ka sa The Vegetarian Bride, ang dami ng tips, ang dami ng relatable stories. Tapos, matched

Tarating yung time na meron ng parang nagiging decision maker sa wedding ninyo. Kung ang nagiging final decision maker ay si bride at si groom. Kahit stressful yung wedding preps, pero pakiramdam mo wedding nyo pa rin yung pinaplano mo. There is a different level of satisfaction. Kahit mahirap, masarap magplano ng wedding. Right? matched

Pero pag yung nagiging major decision maker for your wedding ay magulang nyo, kamag-anak ninyo, or yung mga elder sa angka ninyo. Parang hindi mo na ma-feel that one day na supposed to be ay para sa'yo at sa partner mo. Tapos ibang tao yung nagpa-plano. matched

Alam mo yun, stress ka na tapos hindi ka pa satisfied sa nagiging outcome kasi hindi ito yung wedding na pinapangarap mo. Hindi ito yung wedding na palagay mo ay deserve mo. So, masakit yun. Masakit yun for a bride to be. So, for me, when it comes to your communication, there are things kasi na dapat... matched

ay inaalam natin bago tayo tumawid doon sa pagpapakasal. Okay? Kasi usually, kapag tayo diba sa mag-boyfriend, mag-girlfriend, we usually observe things. Ah, siguro ganito sa family nila. Ah, parang siya yung breadwinner. Nagbibigay kasi siya ng pera sa family niya. matched

Siguro, dun sa mga nakikinig ngayon and nasa long-term relationship or bago pala kayo nagpa-plano ng wedding, I suggest, kung merong mga bagay na hindi malinaw sa inyo, you have to communicate to each other. Mag-usap kayo in a way na magiging kayong objective. Magiging very specific kayo. So, for me, ito siguro yung mga questions na matched

na pwede pang itanong ni bride doon sa kanyang groom. Like, why do they need connections? Bakit kailangan ng pamilya nila ng connections? Kasi, the bride mentioned na yung wedding nila pakiramdam niya naging about money and connections na. matched

And masakit yun. While it hurts sa side ni bride to be, she also needs to ask. Baka naman there's something to be explained kung bakit kailangan nila ng pera at ng connection. Maybe in the past, ito just an example, maybe in the past meron silang tinatayong negosyo and hindi nila ma-pursue yun dahil kulang sila ng connection at ng budget. matched

Or baka naman meron silang parang kaso, ganun, and they need connections para hindi ganun kabigat yung maging parusa sa kanila. I don't know. It's just a sample. Pero siguro, as a bride-to-be, you can ask these things to your partner. Pwede ninyo siyang pag-usapan. So, I think communication is very, very important kapagka ikakasal na kayo. matched

Actually ito, isa rin yan sa madalas itanong sa akin sa The Vegetarian, right? Kapag meron akong pinupost na Ask Me Anything sa social media, laging may tanong na ganito, Miss Camille, normal ba na lumadala or dumadalas yung pag-aaway namin habang palapit ng palapit yung kasal namin? matched

And the answer is yes. Bakit siya normal? Okay, there are away na hindi normal. For example, nagkakapisikala na kayo or may verbal abuse na nangyayari. Yun, hindi yun normal. Okay, you need help with that. Hindi siya normal. Pero yung away na tampuhan, nagkakainisa na kayo, nagkakapikuna na kayo, yun talagang hindi na kayo nagpapansinan, that's normal. Because your relationship is leveling up. matched

This is just a sample for a lot of us. Kapag boyfriend and girlfriend stage kasi, diba, date-date lang kayo, nakikita kayo once or twice a week para mag-date. Ano yung pinaplano ninyo? Anong movie yung panonuorin? San kayo kakain? Ano yung activity na gagawin ninyo? San yung next travel natin? So, those are the things na pinag-uusapan ninyo. Mga bagay na nakakakilig, mga bagay na magpapa-impress sa isa't isa. matched

Right? For a lot of those in a relationship, boyfriend-girlfriend stage, yan yung sobrang sweet, sobrang nakakakilig. Kahit first year, second, or fifth year, basta boyfriend-girlfriend stage, nandyan yung kilig. Now, kapag nag-level up na kayo, papunta na kayo sa wedding preps. Hindi nalang kilig-kilig, hindi nalang day travel or movie yung pag-uusapan ninyo. matched

you're now going to discuss a lot of things like finances. Magiging involved na rin sa consideration ninyo sa mga bagay-bagay yung parents ninyo na dati hindi nyo naman ginagawa. Ito, example, di ba? Kung nanonood kayo ng... matched

A movie. Hindi nyo kailangang isipin na, wait, manonood tayo ng ganitong movie. Magugustuhan ba yan ng parents ko? You don't have to consider them. Kung gusto nyo, for example, manonood kayo ng Hello, Love, Goodbye. matched

Walang say yung parents ninyo. You can do it. Pero pagdating sa wedding planning, ultimo sa wedding gown na susotin mo, ultimo sa mga abay na kupunin mo, kailangan mo i-consider yung sasabihin ng both parents ninyo. Kaya siya nagiging stressful. Kasi ngayon magkakahati-hatian na kayo ng atensyon. matched

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