Camille Fornela

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668 appearances 8 recordings 1 series first heard Mar 2025 last heard Jun 2025

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The Budgetarian Bride: The Podcast · Para Lang Akong Ornament sa Sarili kong Wedding | TBB S2EP1 · 3 Mar 2025 podcast

Kasi mahirap mag-assume. Diba? Pareho kayo ng pinag-uusapan. Yes, Miss Camille, may plano kaming magpakasal in the next two years. Pero ano yung definition nyo ng wedding? Is it an intimate wedding or grand celebration? Kasi kung grand celebration, dapat ngayon palang pinag-iipunan nyo na yan. Right? Another question. Ito, nabanggit ko kanina. What's your top priority when planning a wedding? matched

Kagaya kay Sender, diba? Sa groom niya, ang tingin niya ang nagiging priority nila ay money and connections. Now, pag sinagot ni groom na priority ko sana magkaroon tayo ng more connections for our wedding, then you ask again. Huwag kang mag-assume na, ay, connections, hindi kami pareho ng sagot. You ask, bakit connection? Why do you need connections? Is there anything I need to know? Bakit kailangan ng family ninyo ng connections? matched

you have to ask very specific things instead of having assumptions or again, expectations. Ikaw, pag sumagot ka naman, nagsuko simple wedding surrounded by people that I love, i-define mo rin sa kanya bakit, bakit yun yung klase ng wedding na gusto mo. And then again, sabi ko nga, matututunan din ninyo yung compromise, meet halfway, find a common ground na magkakasundo kayo, okay sa inyo parang yung magiging choice ninyo. matched

Next, since issue nga yung budget, pwede rin. Pag-usapan na ninyo, sa akin talaga gusto kong maging open and transparent kayo bago pa man kayo ikasal. Para alam nyo yung pinapasok nyo, right? So, pwede nyo rin tanong, like, how do they deal with finances sa family? Ano-ano yung major na ginagastusan nila sa bahay nila? matched

Kasi diba, pag kinasal na kayo, syempre talagang pag-uusapan ng finances ang pagbabudget. You really have to know kung paano kapag kami nagkasakit sa family, sino yung kagastos, paano kapag magpapatayo tayo ng bahay, saan tayo kukuha ng pera. Ano ba ang... matched

budget ninyo when you are doing groceries, gaano kayo kadalas kumain sa labas, those are simple questions. But if you ask them doon sa taong mapapangasawa mo, you will get to know them better. And malalaman mo paano sila mag-iisip. Ito, medyo ano na, medyo intense na yung question. Pwede mo rin itanong kapag comfortable na kayong mag-open up sa isa't isa, matched

Ano yung role ng nanay at tatay nila doon sa household nila? You really have to understand kasi most likely doon sa pamilya na pinagagalingan niya, ito yung values na nadali niya sa marriage ninyo. matched

And I'm sure, magkaibang magkaiba yung values and yung beliefs ng families ninyo. Dito siya manggagaling, ikaw dito ka manggagaling, you have different sets of values and beliefs, tapos magkocombine kayo. So expect mo may magka-clash dyan. Iba yung paniniwala ng nanay ko sa paniniwala ng nanay mo, ganito yung tatay ko, ganito yung tatay mo. matched

And you need to understand it ngayon pa lang, bago pa lang kayo ikasal. So, you have to know, bakit kailangan ng money and connections? Baka naman sa family nila, kailangan maging powerful yung mga tatay because there's a certain pressure sa society. May ganun ba silang beliefs? You have to ask. You need to clarify these things sa mapapangasawa mo. So, matched

Ayun, you really have to be open and transparent para alam mo kung ano yung pinapasok mo, alam mo kung ano yung possible na mangyari dun sa marriage ninyo. Number two, matched

define your priorities. Ito, so wedding preps. In my wedding planning na e-book, yung wedding planning for the clueless bride to me, isa ito dun sa mga wedding tips na binanggit ko inside my e-book. You need to write down your non-negotiables. So, ito na. What if kanina, Miss Camille, nag-usap kami, nag-define kami ng dream wedding namin at magkaibang magkaiba kami? matched

Ako, Miss Camille, ang gusto ko, intimate wedding lang. Kaunting tao because I'm an introvert. Kaya lang si Groong, napakarami niyang friends. Gusto niya halos 500 yung mga bisita na meron kami. Paano ngayon yung wedding namin? So, I think, dito na papasok ngayon yung paglilista ninyo ng non-negotiables ninyo. Kasi baka naman pwedeng mag-compromise yung mga bagay na gusto ninyong mangyari for the wedding. So, I suggest... matched

Kayo, as couple, mag-lista kayo, tang-tatlo, ano yung non-negotiables or hindi pwedeng mawala sa wedding ninyo? Kasi baka mamaya, masyado lang malaki or malawak yung definition ninyo na, ah, siguro gusto niya ng malaking wedding, 500 guests daw. Pero yun pala, meron lang siyang very specific people na gusto niyang nandoon. And those are powerful people. Tapos, pwede naman palang bawasan yung 500. matched

So, you really have to list down, be very specific, ano yung mga bagay na nandoon. And then, of course, kapag kayong dalawa ni groom ay nag-usap, magkasundo kayo kung ano yung wedding na gusto ninyong mangyari. And then, pag-usapan na rin ninyo, what if meron tayong family member na iba yung gusto mangyari, how are we going to deal with them? matched

My suggestion, yung family mo as a bride, ikaw ang mahalang kumuusap sa kanila. Family ni groom, si groom ang mahalang kumuusap sa kanila. Kasi for me, sila yung magkakapamilya. Whatever they say, mapapatawad nila isa't isa because at the end of the day, pamilya sila. Pero kapag ikaw as a bride, ikaw yung kukontra sa sinasabi ni mother-in-law. I think it's a family drama in the making. matched

they might take it negatively against you. Kasi bago ka palang sa pamilya, bago ka palang magiging part ng pamilya, pero kumukontra ka na sa mas matanda sa'yo. Again, kultura ng Pilipinas. We've seen it happen on social media. matched

So, yun. For me, you have to deal kung sino yung family mo. And then, kung halimbawa, ikaw hindi ka-agree sa gusto na mangyari ni mother-in-law, ang kakausapin mo si groom. And hayaang si groom ang kumausap sa magulang niya. And also, I would like you to understand that it's okay to set healthy boundaries. matched

compromise kung pwede. Halimbawa, sa amin, sa families namin, dun sa mga abay, mahigpit ako. Sabi ko, walang ibang pipili ng abay kundi ako. I don't want to be surrounded by people na nandun lang dahil gusto ni ganito, ni ganyan. matched

Pero sa mga ninong or ninang, hindi ako masyadong choosy. Okay? So that's the place kung saan ako nag-compromise with our parents. Ah, ito gusto mo maging ninong-ninang. Okay, pwede. Pero ito yung maximum bilang namin. Sumabot kami ng 10 pairs. matched

Pero yun, that's the place kung saan nag-compromise kami. So bakit ako nag-compromise sa wedding day? It's because I want to preserve the harmony ng family members namin, both ni Gro. So if there are things na hindi naman masyadong importante sa'yo, I would like you to understand it's okay to compromise. matched

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