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Carl Lentz

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816 total appearances

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Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
How to Repair Broken Trust with Carl Lentz

So to be able to look at somebody, especially if it's a team that you lead and say, let me know what the impact of my action had on you and we can build from there. That takes a humble, powerful person to be able to do that. And that's why most people don't do it. So they try to almost arrogantly rise above it, like people should get over it.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
How to Repair Broken Trust with Carl Lentz

So to be able to look at somebody, especially if it's a team that you lead and say, let me know what the impact of my action had on you and we can build from there. That takes a humble, powerful person to be able to do that. And that's why most people don't do it. So they try to almost arrogantly rise above it, like people should get over it.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
How to Repair Broken Trust with Carl Lentz

So to be able to look at somebody, especially if it's a team that you lead and say, let me know what the impact of my action had on you and we can build from there. That takes a humble, powerful person to be able to do that. And that's why most people don't do it. So they try to almost arrogantly rise above it, like people should get over it.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
How to Repair Broken Trust with Carl Lentz

We don't have the right to control people's response to our bad decisions. They're owed the dignity of that process. So that would be my humble submission is some sort of version of that. I've just seen it work 100 times out of 100. So someone can reject it, but I'm also saying it's undefeated.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
How to Repair Broken Trust with Carl Lentz

We don't have the right to control people's response to our bad decisions. They're owed the dignity of that process. So that would be my humble submission is some sort of version of that. I've just seen it work 100 times out of 100. So someone can reject it, but I'm also saying it's undefeated.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
How to Repair Broken Trust with Carl Lentz

We don't have the right to control people's response to our bad decisions. They're owed the dignity of that process. So that would be my humble submission is some sort of version of that. I've just seen it work 100 times out of 100. So someone can reject it, but I'm also saying it's undefeated.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
How to Repair Broken Trust with Carl Lentz

It works. It works in every facet of life. You can take that and do it for any break of commitment. The same mechanism works. Roman, my son, I told you we were going to go play ball at 7. I'm here at 7.30. I broke my word. Will you forgive me? And will you tell me the impact that's had on you, if there has been any, so I can seek to make that right?

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
How to Repair Broken Trust with Carl Lentz

It works. It works in every facet of life. You can take that and do it for any break of commitment. The same mechanism works. Roman, my son, I told you we were going to go play ball at 7. I'm here at 7.30. I broke my word. Will you forgive me? And will you tell me the impact that's had on you, if there has been any, so I can seek to make that right?

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
How to Repair Broken Trust with Carl Lentz

It works. It works in every facet of life. You can take that and do it for any break of commitment. The same mechanism works. Roman, my son, I told you we were going to go play ball at 7. I'm here at 7.30. I broke my word. Will you forgive me? And will you tell me the impact that's had on you, if there has been any, so I can seek to make that right?

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
How to Repair Broken Trust with Carl Lentz

Sometimes my kids will cut me off now in the middle. I'm fine. I'm fine. No impact, Dad. But the principle is making sure that you understand that I am sorry and I don't disrespect you so much that I just act like your schedule wasn't changed. There's nothing worse than someone showing up late for a meeting and they act like it was your fault that you came to the meeting they asked you to be at.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
How to Repair Broken Trust with Carl Lentz

Sometimes my kids will cut me off now in the middle. I'm fine. I'm fine. No impact, Dad. But the principle is making sure that you understand that I am sorry and I don't disrespect you so much that I just act like your schedule wasn't changed. There's nothing worse than someone showing up late for a meeting and they act like it was your fault that you came to the meeting they asked you to be at.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
How to Repair Broken Trust with Carl Lentz

Sometimes my kids will cut me off now in the middle. I'm fine. I'm fine. No impact, Dad. But the principle is making sure that you understand that I am sorry and I don't disrespect you so much that I just act like your schedule wasn't changed. There's nothing worse than someone showing up late for a meeting and they act like it was your fault that you came to the meeting they asked you to be at.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
How to Repair Broken Trust with Carl Lentz

Sorry I'm late. I got so much on. It has nothing to do with me. You're late.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
How to Repair Broken Trust with Carl Lentz

Sorry I'm late. I got so much on. It has nothing to do with me. You're late.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
How to Repair Broken Trust with Carl Lentz

Sorry I'm late. I got so much on. It has nothing to do with me. You're late.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
How to Repair Broken Trust with Carl Lentz

So honesty will do that to you. The honesty will make it clear really quick.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
How to Repair Broken Trust with Carl Lentz

So honesty will do that to you. The honesty will make it clear really quick.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
How to Repair Broken Trust with Carl Lentz

So honesty will do that to you. The honesty will make it clear really quick.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
How to Repair Broken Trust with Carl Lentz

Yes. So for your amazing listeners, I haven't seen these. I wanted to make sure that this is honest. I just have to decide, do I want to answer these with my broken self or my healing self? Because they're two different words. So some days I'll have days where I'll answer this for real. But no, I'm joking. Shoot. I'm going to give you my best answer. My most honest.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
How to Repair Broken Trust with Carl Lentz

Yes. So for your amazing listeners, I haven't seen these. I wanted to make sure that this is honest. I just have to decide, do I want to answer these with my broken self or my healing self? Because they're two different words. So some days I'll have days where I'll answer this for real. But no, I'm joking. Shoot. I'm going to give you my best answer. My most honest.