Casey O'Roarty
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first heard Aug 2016
last heard Apr 2022
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I am the boss of you, right?
Versus that behavior that's hurtful, that revenge, we call it, where it's like a punch to the gut.
Right.
And then they assumed inadequacy really being like you just feel like a sponge that's been wrung dry and you're just simply...
exhausted and out of
So I think that it's really important for parents to really start to pay attention to the physical experience that they're having along with their emotions, as an indicator of where their kids are at.
And then the other piece too, is the solutions
The proactive, encouraging solutions that we share in positive discipline are always based in kindness and firmness.
And kindness not being niceness, not being sugarcoating everything, but kindness really being about connecting with the child that's in front of you.
And they're very real human needs.
So those are two things that are really powerful that stick out to me when we talk about behavior and positive discipline.
It's not so much like you had said, what are the missing skills, right?
So handling behavior in a way that on the other side of whatever we choose to do or say leaves our kids with more skills for handling that same situation than they had before versus just, well, you're grounded.
Which doesn't give our kids any skills other than being resentful of us.
Well, what I always say, regardless of the people that are sitting in front of me is that parents are experts on their own kids.
And positive discipline is a it's like a buffet, right?
It's a buffet of options that can be really helpful, you know, when used in a way that's effective.
And I have I've worked a little bit with families who have kids that are wired differently.
And what I always say is none of what I'm going to share with you is going to be hurtful.
And there will be lots that will be helpful.
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