Cate
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I was literally in an inpatient facility.
I put myself in this facility, um, because I was wanting to unalive myself for a very long time to where it clicked when a therapist, we had this whole conversation about, you know, us relinquishing and stuff.
And she was like, that is trauma.
And, you know, Carly was probably eight, nine years old at that point.
And I remember calling Tyler and being like, I never looked at it this
Do you know what I'm saying?
Because I think like me and you have said a few times too, is like almost that.
Well, right.
And I feel like people think that they're getting this infant, so it's just a blank slate.
No, it doesn't.
It happens right there.
It doesn't matter.
Yeah.
And what a lot of pressure to put on a kid.
Yeah, and I think it varies.
Well, you know why?
Because it all comes back to – it all circles back to –
That's what I always say.
What is the problem with that?
I don't understand that.