Cate

I'm just like talking, you know, you know, or whatever.

But.

I think a lot of people can relate to that.

Like when you have people who are going through very severe mental illness and, you know, sometimes for the first time, like them feeling like their mental health is prioritized over the other person's and that's not fair at all.

Yeah.

I'll never forget when I found out I was pregnant with AIDA, came in the door because I went to the hospital to get a blood test done.

Came into the door, and I'm like, yep.

And he was just standing on the counter drinking a fifth of Jägermeister.

And I was like, oh, no.

We should have been using birth control.

I don't know what was wrong with us.

I don't understand it.

Which obviously was hard and it was sad for me for sure.

But I was like, all right, if he's going to go sleep at the house alone, I guess go for it.

Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, about her.

Like, she has to have so many days sober and stuff.

And if the therapist's advice doesn't align with you – And then I think it goes – but also I think that –

I feel like it's also up to the patient then too.

Like if it doesn't fit with you saying like, that doesn't really feel good to me.

Like, is there a different way I could go about it?