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That feels right for me, but still doing it in the positive way or setting good boundaries or whatever.

But yeah, I think that, you know, in those moments is when you say, well, that doesn't really feel good for me.

Right.

And maybe you're – And I bet you they will give you another opportunity that does the thing that you're trying to get done but in a way that feels comfortable for you.

And then you found out what works for you and what feels good for you.

So that way you don't ever have any regrets.

So that's what I'm saying.

Speak up and say, no, that doesn't feel right to me.

Or I think we can do that a different way because.

You know what I mean?

Well, change is uncomfortable.

That's what I mean.

Like speaking up and telling them like that doesn't feel right to me.

I bet you they can have they have a different something.

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