Catt Sadler

And so I think the reality of one end, it was definitely an end. an ending can be really challenging. I just, maybe I hadn't considered a more hopeful narrative following all of that. I was still so raw. Like I said, it was still so new. Maybe I would have gotten to that, you know, down the line after grieving and doing work on myself and all those things.

And so I think the reality of one end, it was definitely an end. an ending can be really challenging. I just, maybe I hadn't considered a more hopeful narrative following all of that. I was still so raw. Like I said, it was still so new. Maybe I would have gotten to that, you know, down the line after grieving and doing work on myself and all those things.

But, you know, I think he's circumvented a lot of my own work and just at least planted that seed for me that made me realize that, that I really did have a choice and I had some power in the situation to create however that was going to look like the reality is over here. But we always in our suffering still have an opportunity to to shape things how we want to.

But, you know, I think he's circumvented a lot of my own work and just at least planted that seed for me that made me realize that, that I really did have a choice and I had some power in the situation to create however that was going to look like the reality is over here. But we always in our suffering still have an opportunity to to shape things how we want to.

But, you know, I think he's circumvented a lot of my own work and just at least planted that seed for me that made me realize that, that I really did have a choice and I had some power in the situation to create however that was going to look like the reality is over here. But we always in our suffering still have an opportunity to to shape things how we want to.

We are the co-creators of our lives. I always say that all the time. I didn't know it then. I was only like this was like almost 20 years ago. I just turned 30. And yeah, it was it was really beautiful.

We are the co-creators of our lives. I always say that all the time. I didn't know it then. I was only like this was like almost 20 years ago. I just turned 30. And yeah, it was it was really beautiful.

We are the co-creators of our lives. I always say that all the time. I didn't know it then. I was only like this was like almost 20 years ago. I just turned 30. And yeah, it was it was really beautiful.

Mm hmm. Yeah. Well, and to your point, luckily for me, the procedural formalities of divorce, that was the easy part. Like that was really clean. And I know a lot of people who aren't as lucky who, I mean, I hear some stories and I'm sure, you know, some stories that can be really, really, really harrowing for people.

Mm hmm. Yeah. Well, and to your point, luckily for me, the procedural formalities of divorce, that was the easy part. Like that was really clean. And I know a lot of people who aren't as lucky who, I mean, I hear some stories and I'm sure, you know, some stories that can be really, really, really harrowing for people.

Mm hmm. Yeah. Well, and to your point, luckily for me, the procedural formalities of divorce, that was the easy part. Like that was really clean. And I know a lot of people who aren't as lucky who, I mean, I hear some stories and I'm sure, you know, some stories that can be really, really, really harrowing for people.

So, so the whole thing was emotional, really, you know, I had mostly, it was my kids, my kids, my kids, I, they were six and two at the time. And again, I I think I had had a rocky experience personally as a child. My parents, my biological mother and father, just, you know, they were angry at each other for years. And so... I just didn't want them to have a similar experience growing up.

So, so the whole thing was emotional, really, you know, I had mostly, it was my kids, my kids, my kids, I, they were six and two at the time. And again, I I think I had had a rocky experience personally as a child. My parents, my biological mother and father, just, you know, they were angry at each other for years. And so... I just didn't want them to have a similar experience growing up.

So, so the whole thing was emotional, really, you know, I had mostly, it was my kids, my kids, my kids, I, they were six and two at the time. And again, I I think I had had a rocky experience personally as a child. My parents, my biological mother and father, just, you know, they were angry at each other for years. And so... I just didn't want them to have a similar experience growing up.

I wanted their birthday parties to be fun. I didn't want there to be animosity or bitterness. So at first I had to make that kind of decision. And luckily with Kyle, right away, that was the one thing we agreed on. Listen, we had some things we had to work through and there was some therapy involved and that kind of thing. But the one thing we definitely agreed on was

I wanted their birthday parties to be fun. I didn't want there to be animosity or bitterness. So at first I had to make that kind of decision. And luckily with Kyle, right away, that was the one thing we agreed on. Listen, we had some things we had to work through and there was some therapy involved and that kind of thing. But the one thing we definitely agreed on was

I wanted their birthday parties to be fun. I didn't want there to be animosity or bitterness. So at first I had to make that kind of decision. And luckily with Kyle, right away, that was the one thing we agreed on. Listen, we had some things we had to work through and there was some therapy involved and that kind of thing. But the one thing we definitely agreed on was

We're going to do this differently. And eventually we're going to have to figure out our co-parenting situation. We're going to have to figure out how that looks. But no matter what, it's a kid's first approach.

We're going to do this differently. And eventually we're going to have to figure out our co-parenting situation. We're going to have to figure out how that looks. But no matter what, it's a kid's first approach.

We're going to do this differently. And eventually we're going to have to figure out our co-parenting situation. We're going to have to figure out how that looks. But no matter what, it's a kid's first approach.