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Chachi

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
341 total appearances

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Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

Yeah, absolutely.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

I think labels evolve over time.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

As you said, a couple

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

years or a few years back of RuPaul, I don't know if you caught any wind of this, but RuPaul got into a lot of trouble for using that word within the community.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

Correct.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

And I think language is important.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

And obviously people still use that word.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

It has

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

become a time where the connotation towards it is very negative.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

So we try to refrain from that.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

And I think the lesson in particular is language does change.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

I mean, when I was a kid, if you used queer, for instance, that was just as derogatory as

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

the other word that we were talking about today.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

So I think now the community has reclaimed it and queer is something that's empowering because it encompasses all different spectrums of the community.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

So there's a lot to be learned from language.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

And I think

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

Probably the most important thing, and you touched on something really important, is that there's certain community members that still use that word and are comfortable with that word.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

And that maybe even particularly the community that is comfortable with that word is not comfortable with the word like queer, because it comes from a time where it was really painful to hear that word.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

Right.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

Yeah, I would.

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