Chachi

I would label myself queer.

Correct.

Correct.

Correct.

But not necessarily.

That doesn't encompass just a gay spectrum.

Queer is an umbrella term for the bi community, everyone that falls under the LGBTQIA umbrella.

So there's not really, just because I say I'm queer doesn't mean that I'm gay, but I am gay.

to get to that.

I'm 51 and I have been with my partner for 15 years now and we actually got married this year.

understand the difference right it doesn't mean love it doesn't necessarily mean that right absolutely i mean there's animalistic instincts that happen with men that i think maybe some women have but i think for sure for the most part they've been on my show anyway

Yes, they have.

I've listened to them.

We are open.

It is a recent development.

We haven't had a ton of experience in the openness yet.

We have had special guest stars come into our bedroom from time to time over the years, and that's not new.

But

The venturing out on our own kind of progressed for several reasons, obviously one that you just mentioned.

We're not really the type of people that are, I guess, programmed like I would say a heterosexual couple where it's like marriage is this unity of just complete monogamy and like it's just us and we have only the vision blinders for each other.