Chachi

We're realistic, we are men and we're attracted to other men and

that is going to change.

And I also, I think we both, I should say, come from the background where we don't feel like one person can be everything for us.

You know what I mean?

It's just not.

We have like a great relationship and we have a foundation and we're family and we own

a house together it's not like we're going anywhere it's just the drive of sexual attraction is different than uh what you would label a normal i guess relationship i don't even like using that word normal but you know it's the first thing that comes to mind so quote unquote thank you so yeah we have not really gone uh wild with the openness it was it i think we both have like had like

We have differences in sexual drives, which led to this, and then also sexual interests.

So I think that's normal if you're in a healthy relationship to communicate that with your partner and go from there and see if there's something that you can't or don't want to explore necessarily in your relationship.

you can find elsewhere and it doesn't alienate what you already have.

Our foundation is really strong and we are our first priorities at the end of the day.

Yes, absolutely.

So that's interesting that you put it that way, because I never really have thought of it that way.

But yeah, I guess so.

Yeah, I guess.

But I don't know.

There's a difference, I guess, just for me in particular, because I'm sharing an experience with my partner versus just...

going and being wild alone not that i'm going to be doing that because i'm also not a 20 year old but yeah i i guess i guess so we've been open for longer than than if we're going to label it that way right

No, no, no, no.

We didn't do that for quite a while.