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Chachi

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
341 total appearances

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Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

It's we're, we're, we're punched down as children and upbringing of like, you have to be a certain way.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

And I'm also Puerto Rican, so there's a whole other cultural element.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

That falls into, yes, exactly, my psyche.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

So there's a lot of reprogramming that happens or is happening in my brain.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

And that's, again, why when I hear somebody using the trans terminology and automatically assuming someone is something, it's a red flag for me, mostly because...

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

people assume a lot about me that they don't understand, right?

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

Yeah, I think so too.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

I think...

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

I'm part of my job.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

I was a Berg leader.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

So I was a leader for the queer.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

It's a business employee resource group.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

It's like a volunteer kind of thing.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

And there's a bunch of us.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

So every kind of community has their own.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

And so I was a Berg leader for both the queer community and the Latinx community.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

And even understanding...

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

When you introduce yourself, giving out your pronouns is so difficult for so many people to do, but it's so important for our community to just be able to know where they stand with people.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

And it says so much.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

So language, again, which we would never, you know, 10 years ago say...