Charles Duhigg
speaker
1,650 appearances
6 recordings
6 series
first heard Jan 2026
last heard 1 Jul
Charles Duhigg’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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I might say something casual to you, and then I pay attention.
Right, do you laugh back?
I might interrupt you, and if you say like, don't do that again, I'll notice, right?
And the thing to remember is that I don't think it was a, it was not a mistake that you did that.
It was not even a failure.
Because the whole point of a conversation at the beginning is to work out those rules.
Experiment with it, experiment with it.
And if some, and if every, like my wife is a scientist, if every experiment is a success, you're a terrible scientist, right?
You want to do experiments that fail and succeed.
That's when you're learning.
And the fact that this guy told you that, it means that he actually told you something about how he communicates.
He likes, yeah.
And vulnerability, right?
100%.
And I think, so there's another idea that's really critical in the book and that is critical to what we've learned in the last decade, which is known as emotional reciprocity.
That when I show you something vulnerable,
you need to show me that you've heard it, but if you share something vulnerable in return, we will feel closer.
We really can't even, we can't, it's like hardware, we can't not feel closer.
Okay, right.
So if you say like, you know, my dad passed away and I say, oh man, I totally understand.
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