Charlie Mackesy

And I suppose friends to me, going back to the original, are we can relish the uniqueness of parts of each other that only are there with each other.

And I love that.

And they're friends who I can, you know, people's, you know, doing nothing with friends is never doing nothing, is it?

And that's a line from a book which I think I like because you don't need to be doing a thing to

You don't need to be going to football or watching, but you can just literally do this and chat or go for a walk and talk about anything.

Just sitting in silence is doing an awful lot.

You don't need to fill it.

Yeah.

Too many.

Too many.

That's a great question.

I would say in honesty, no.

but i'm i think grief for me is going in installments and when i was a kid i had a record by art garfunkel and one of the lines was reality it's not for me and it makes me laugh and i remember i remember thinking i like that because reality i can only take in small doses

Otherwise it gets too much.

Um, I think probably the subconscious is quite good on one level about drip feeding stuff to us.

Cause sometimes it's just overwhelmed.

Yeah.

Too much.

But I think probably what I don't do enough of, which I should probably do is, is doing what you and I are doing.

Hence the title of your podcast.