Charlie Mackesy

it struck me and i thought you know it's something that does take effort yes that these default relationships because you're around someone and therefore you don't have to make the effort there's a different thing but some so many men they think someone dies they move away this happens this happens and people you know that the ground gets thinner humanly so you need to choose friends and fight for them

work at it and have the courage he ever since he said that i thought whoa that was a courageous thing to say and my biggest struggle you know in is the idea that i can that i can love myself and my neighbor i i can't do that very well i that's what the journey of this has been all about is

How do you see yourself?

How do you hold yourself?

How do you value yourself?

How do you not throw yourself away in situations?

How do you keep believing that you're enough, that you're worth it?

I think if you can somehow be grateful for any situation you're in, it's a good thing.

And not beat ourselves up.

Yes.

Because I'm a great one for that.

You know, in this second book, there's a line where I say, you'll have critics.

Thor says, you'll have critics.

Make sure you're not one of them.

Because I can be enough.

You know, here I'm talking to you and I'm trying to give my best side.

But, you know, I can get home and go, Charlie, why did you say that?

Right.

What are you doing?

We think, you know, and look at you, your genes.