Charlotte Cummings

But, you know, for some people it's also about not wanting to be left behind.

You know, they're wanting to have –

because they don't like to feel unsafe and actually money is something that they need to hold on to because they feel unsafe or they don't feel good enough.

They have this unbearable feeling of not being good enough so they don't back themselves that they could make that money again.

They're kind of living with this buffer because the emotion that's uncomfortable for them is not feeling good enough.

And they don't back their ability to find another opportunity or make something work out in some way.

And we all have one sometimes.

too.

I love that for us.

Yeah, lucky some, most of the time it's one.

And sometimes there's kind of a secondary unbearable feeling, but usually there's one that is the kind of chief mischief maker of our lives.

And it's something that, you know, when we see it, we go, wow, I can see all of the areas that this is showing up in relationships and parenting and our careers and in our money lives.

Yeah, so usually it's, you know, tell me about life, what's going on at the moment, what are the challenges that you're experiencing?

But then we're getting into what is behind the pain that you're experiencing.

So how come these things have happened?

How come these patterns are following you around?

You know, if people are doing the same things over and over and getting the same results and going, huh, you know, I'm unhappy.

Here I am again.

Or, you know, something is going wrong here.

Then we're getting into digging behind the scenes and trying to find that kind of that basement level of what's the assumption or the belief that this all relies on.