Charlotte White

And during that secret readout, I believe I did say at some point, don't gaslight yourself.

Because she was saying, oh, but maybe I'm just like crazy and dumb because maybe I initially counted three or two or whatever and it wasn't five originally.

And maybe that's true that you did miscount at the beginning and your insecurities are making you misremember, but you're not crazy, Sally.

No.

Something is happening here with your relationship and there are two people in that relationship.

He needs to know that you're worrying and stressing like this if he didn't cheat and if there's just some sort of misunderstanding that's happened here.

Mm.

There is also like a small percentage of possibility that he did.

I don't think so.

But I don't know.

I think he needs to know.

Not because like he deserves to know you've been snooping.

I don't think it's the end of the world that you've been snooping.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah.

And I'm sure he already has an inkling that you're anxious.

Yeah.

If you haven't spoken about attachment styles yet, which you so should.

Yeah.