Charlotte White

I want someone to be really proud of my success.

Of course.

But I wonder if you can express that and work through that.

And whether you can do a 180 after that.

Because Tom expressed that he was jealous?

No, that's a vibe I think she's getting.

She must be getting a very strong vibe.

There must be lots of evidence backing this up because she's so confident in it.

I also think maybe just in like a heterodynamic, if you're a successful woman and maybe your partner isn't,

at that exact same level at that point in time, for me anyway, if I was in Billy's position, I would feel like, oh, wait, so you're jealous of me?

Because there is that, like, expectation that the man is supposed to be more successful.

I think that I imagine she may also be sensitive to this, which is a good thing.

Like, it's not a bad thing at all.

It would also be, like, yeah, closing in on his masculinity and his sense of success and how's he going in his life and so.

Yeah, so he raised –

that you're not valuing me as a person outside our relationship dynamic.

Yeah.

That was the thing I wanted to put a pin in.

Why does my brain not fully understand what that means?

What does that, yeah, what could he possibly be talking about?