Charlotte White

So I'd be like, no one come close to me.

But I kept that pretty suppressed at the time.

I think I tried to really gently raise that I was anxious at the time, but I never had a full blown like face to face confrontation with my friends about it.

Like group chat.

Group chat.

Yeah, for sure.

Know your privilege.

Yes, period.

I would definitely feel completely confident if I was having a conversation with a man like this to be like, what the fuck?

Especially if you didn't expect or know that this was where his opinion lies.

Yeah.

Yeah, for sure.

But like there are some topics with friends where you're weighing up whether it's worth raising it.

I don't know why, but maybe it is because of the way I was raised.

I have never really jumped to confront them about it, a friend, which I think is sometimes a bit of a pathetic route.

Sometimes I'm like, oh, you probably just like not bottle that and say it.

I think I will always like soft agree, but not actually like genuinely agree.

I'll soft agree and then be like, but also we should probably think about this side of the argument just because I'm like, let's talk about it.

Yeah.

But sometimes it doesn't get acknowledged.