Chloe Hadjimatheou

Der Gareth, den ich in den letzten Jahren kennengelernt habe, ist ein sehr bemerkenswert und intelligenter Mann. Aber er ist auch jemand mit Angst und Paranoia. Ich kann das sehen. Aber was ich mich nicht zuerst auf den Finger legen konnte, war, wie genau seine Beziehung zu einer älteren Frau die Probleme, die er heute hat, geleitet hat.

Der Gareth, den ich in den letzten Jahren kennengelernt habe, ist ein sehr bemerkenswert und intelligenter Mann. Aber er ist auch jemand mit Angst und Paranoia. Ich kann das sehen. Aber was ich mich nicht zuerst auf den Finger legen konnte, war, wie genau seine Beziehung zu einer älteren Frau die Probleme, die er heute hat, geleitet hat.

Miss Bowen normalised her desires before Gareth could even begin to explore and understand his own. And he says some of her desires were quite kinky. But Gareth wouldn't have known that. He had nothing to compare it to. So then, when it came to girls his own age, his expectations would often be frightening for them.

Miss Bowen normalised her desires before Gareth could even begin to explore and understand his own. And he says some of her desires were quite kinky. But Gareth wouldn't have known that. He had nothing to compare it to. So then, when it came to girls his own age, his expectations would often be frightening for them.

By the time he's 16, Gareth's relationship with his mum has broken down completely. All the lies have poisoned things between them and she asks him to leave home. At this point, Gareth's in a really bad way.

By the time he's 16, Gareth's relationship with his mum has broken down completely. All the lies have poisoned things between them and she asks him to leave home. At this point, Gareth's in a really bad way.

I've spoken to a lawyer. He and his firm have represented thousands of sexual abuse survivors in legal cases against all sorts of institutions. He's even worked with victims of Jimmy Savile. And he tells me the average age for his clients to come forward, particularly male clients, is between 35 and 50 years old.

I've spoken to a lawyer. He and his firm have represented thousands of sexual abuse survivors in legal cases against all sorts of institutions. He's even worked with victims of Jimmy Savile. And he tells me the average age for his clients to come forward, particularly male clients, is between 35 and 50 years old.

It often takes more than a quarter of a century before they're ready to face what happened to them. When his moment comes, Gareth's in his early 40s. Bang on average. He's spent decades holding his secret. He's never admitted it to his mum, though he has confided in a couple of girlfriends and then his wife.

It often takes more than a quarter of a century before they're ready to face what happened to them. When his moment comes, Gareth's in his early 40s. Bang on average. He's spent decades holding his secret. He's never admitted it to his mum, though he has confided in a couple of girlfriends and then his wife.

For years it's actually been a point of pride that his first relationship was with a much older teacher at school.

For years it's actually been a point of pride that his first relationship was with a much older teacher at school.

But things shift. He meets and marries his current partner, someone who's been his rock over the years. And he adopts her two children when they're still quite young. Fatherhood is something he enjoys and is good at. And it's also something that changes his perceptions.

But things shift. He meets and marries his current partner, someone who's been his rock over the years. And he adopts her two children when they're still quite young. Fatherhood is something he enjoys and is good at. And it's also something that changes his perceptions.

Die Versicherung, die Gareths Mutter gesagt hat, die sie in 1988 zur Schule gegeben hat, dass Sally Ann Bowen wieder lernen würde, war nicht wahr. Es hat Gareth eine Vierteljahre gedauert, um zu realisieren.

Die Versicherung, die Gareths Mutter gesagt hat, die sie in 1988 zur Schule gegeben hat, dass Sally Ann Bowen wieder lernen würde, war nicht wahr. Es hat Gareth eine Vierteljahre gedauert, um zu realisieren.

Es gibt kein einziges Event, das die Zahlen für ihn beibringt. Es ist mehr ein langsamer Ausdruck neuer Informationen, gesehen durch das schwingende Lens eines mehr erfahrenen, älteren Mannes. Aber der Tag kommt endlich, als Gareth bereit ist, was seine Mutter all diese Jahre lang gemacht hat. Er nimmt das Telefon an und ruft die Polizei an. This is when Gareth's story reaches its second act.

Es gibt kein einziges Event, das die Zahlen für ihn beibringt. Es ist mehr ein langsamer Ausdruck neuer Informationen, gesehen durch das schwingende Lens eines mehr erfahrenen, älteren Mannes. Aber der Tag kommt endlich, als Gareth bereit ist, was seine Mutter all diese Jahre lang gemacht hat. Er nimmt das Telefon an und ruft die Polizei an. This is when Gareth's story reaches its second act.

Did you think she might deny it or did you think she'd admit it?

Did you think she might deny it or did you think she'd admit it?